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Unit 22: D.H. Lawrence — Sons and Lovers : Detailed Study of Text
Chapter 11: The Test on Miriam Notes
Summary
Inspired by Clara’s advice, Paul realizes that he must go back to Miriam. He reflects that the
problems between the two of them may have been caused by the lack of sexuality in their
relationship. He feels no aversion to her; rather, he feels that his desire for her has been
overwhelmed by his stronger shyness and virginity.
He begins to spend more time with Miriam again, much to the dismay of his mother. One day
he begins a serious discussion with her about marriage, and asks her if she thinks they have
been “too fierce” in their purity toward each other. He tells her that he loves her, that he has
been obstinate, and he kisses her. On their way home, he asks her (not in so many words) if
she will sleep with him, and she tells him that she will, but not now.
Miriam feels that her submission to Paul will be a sacrifice, and it is a sacrifice she is willing
to make for him. He begins to treat his relationship with her as a romantic relationship. One
evening they go into the woods and “she relinquished herself to him,” but with some horror
and with her soul somewhat apart.
Miriam goes to stay at her grandmother’s cottage, and Paul visits her often. One holiday he
goes to spend the whole day with her. She prepares dinner, for that day they feel as though
they live together in that cottage. They take a walk outside after dinner, and then come back
inside and make love. Paul feels that he is sacrificing Miriam and that she is allowing herself
to be sacrificed because she loves him so much.
During the next week, he asks her why she is so hesitant toward him, and she replies that she
feels it is not quite right because they are not married. He tells her that he would like to marry
her, but she feels they are too young. He begins to feel a sense of failure and to draw somewhat
away from Miriam again. He begins to spend more time with his men friends and also once
again with Clara.
Paul tells his mother that he will break off with Miriam, because he does not love her and does
not want to marry her. She is somewhat surprised, and encourages him to do whatever he
thinks is best. He goes to Miriam and tells her they should break off because he does not want
to marry. She is upset, tells him he is a child of four, and tells him that she knew all along
that it would not work out between them. This upsets Paul and he begins to feel that she has
deceived him; she had only pretended to love him. They part, each full of bitterness.
Task What can Miriam do to get Paul back ?
Analysis
Partly because of Paul’s more frequent visits to Miriam, Mrs. Morel begins to give up on him.
She feels that his mind is made up, and that nothing would persuade him to change his mind
and restore his loyalties to her.
Lawrence’s language seems to be deliberately vague on the subject of sex; it seems that Paul
and Miriam sleep together in the woods when the narrator says “she relinquished herself to
him.” However, when they are in her grandmother’s cottage, it seems that he makes love to
her for the first time. Paul feels as he rides home that night that he had finally moved past
his youth. This vagueness of language is largely due to the strict public morality that characterized
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