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Sociology of Kinship





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                                                   The rape victims mutely tolerate the crime committed against them because of
                                                  the social stigma. Fear of losing the job, concern about supporting the family
                                                  and children, too, compel them to bear in silence.

                                       Dr. Ahuja studied the rape victims of Rajasthan and found that the incidents of rape do not
                                       always occur amongst strangers. The act of rape may be committed by one man or a group of
                                       men. The rape victims are lured with money and are pressurized verbally.




                                                      Most of the rape victims were in the age group of 15 to 20 years. Most of the
                                                      rapists were in the age group of 23 to 30years. Thus, it can be said that age
                                                      has been an important factor in rape cases and the stage of youth has been
                                                      a motivational factor.

                                       On studying cases related to rape, the social scholars have come to the following conclusion:
                                        1.  It is an incorrect notion that a women cannot be a victim of rape if she fights back.
                                        2.  It is wrong to think that only good looking women are victims of rape.
                                        3.  It is absurd to believe that the rape victims actually enjoy the act.
                                        4.  It is not right to say that most of the rapists are mentally disturbed.
                                        5.  It is not correct to believe that most of the rapes happen on their own and are not pre-
                                           planned.
                                        6.  It is not correct to think that rapes happen because of excessive sex drive and also because
                                           of sense of superiority and power.
                                        7.  There is no co-relation between excessive sex drive and rape.
                                       Since the last few years, the women’s organisation in the West have been active in changing the
                                       people’s attitude and legal approach towards rape. They stress that rape should be considered
                                       a violent crime and not a sexual offence. It is not a mere physical assault but an assault on an
                                       individual’s esteem and dedication.
                                       The campaign had an effect, as a result of which in many Western countries, today rape has been
                                       legally accepted as a special form of criminal violence. A women’s organisation in America has
                                       suggested some ways to avoid rape. They are:
                                        1.  Make you home extremely safe. The doors and windows should be in working condition.
                                           In case you move to another house, replace/change the locks too.
                                        2.  If you stay alone, act as if more than one person stays there. Show as if there are men too, in
                                           the house. In case someone knocks at the door, say aloud you stay in the room, I will open
                                           the door.
                                        3.  Instead of writing your full  name on the door, use abbreviations such as S.K. Agarwal
                                           instead of Santosh Kumari Agarwal.
                                        4.  Stay away from strangers, and do not open the door to them.
                                        5.  Don’t stay , alone in deserted houses.
                                        6.  Don’t roam around alone in lanes or universities.
                                        7.  Keep with you, objects like arms, lighter, Knife, fork and whistle. Roam around in a group,
                                           not alone.


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