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Unit  28:  Family and Marriage in India: Regional Diversities





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                             There is a lack of partnership sense amongst husband and wife and lack of
                             closeness amongst father and children. As far as husband income is concerned,
                             women  are totally free. In this respect, the south Indian families  are totally
                             different from the North Indian families.


                  The Matrilocal joint families known as ‘Tarwad’ are found amongst the Nairs of Malabar in
                  Travancore and some other groups. The main characteristics of Tarwad families are as follows:
                   1.  The property of Tarwad belongs to all men and women.
                   2.  The unmarried sons are the members of mother’s Tarwad while the married sons are the
                     members of their wives’Tarwad,
                   3.  The oldest family member manages the Tarwad property. He is called karnavan and his
                     wife is called Ammayi.
                   4.  Karnavan is the absolute dictator. After his demise, the next senior/eldest member becomes
                     the karnavan. He can invest the money in his name, can pawn the property, can loan the
                     money,  can  gift the land  and  is  not accountable to any member regarding income  and
                     expenditure.
                   5.  When a Tarwad takes a large form, it is split into Tavanzhi. With relation to women, Ta-
                     vazhi is the group of those individuals, which includes women, their children, and all the
                     inheritors of the woman’s descent.
                  The Tarwards before 1912 and those after 1912 are two different groups, with different charac-
                  teristics:
                    (a)  Earlier, the Tarwad property was indivisible but now, it is divided.
                    (b)  Earlier, the karnavan was the absolute dictator.
                    (c)  Earlier, the Tarwad members were not entitled to family support untill and unless they
                     lived in the ancestral house, but now they are entitled to family support even if they live
                     away from the ancestral house.
                    (d)  Earlier, worshipping the karnavan ancestors was a normal thing, but not anymore.
                    (e)  Earlier,  the  relation  between  husband  and  wife  was  formal,  but  now  this  relation  has
                     become more informal, personal and more cordial and close.
                   (f)  Earlier, after the demise of a Tarwad member, his property would go to the Tarwad, but
                     now this property goes to his widow and children. In the absence of children, It goes to the
                     mother and mother’s mother. Kapadia (1947:348) has also written that it is a fact that there
                     is only are Tavazhi in more than 90% veedus (homes). This shows that in the last few dec-
                     ades, the atomization of Tarwads has increased.





                             The Tarwad of the Nair caste has been dissolved after the Travancore Act, 1912;
                             the Cochin Act, 1920 and their enforcement in 1933. Now, a woman’s property
                             goes to her sons and daughters and then to her father and husband.



                  28.4  Clan Organisation and Marriage Rules

                  A caste is divided into five Exogamy clans. The prominent characteristics of clan organisation
                  are as follows:

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