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bdkbZ—22: Hkkjr esa ifjokj dk fodkl&pØ




            osQ lnL;ksa osQ chp cuus okys laca/A bl izdkj osQ laca/ dh f=keq[kh izÑfr gSA ;Fkk] ifr&iRuh osQ chp]  uksV
            ekrk&firk vkSj larkuksa osQ chp rFkk lgksnjksa osQ chp laca/A ;g t:jh ugha gS fd nwljs vkSj rhljs izdkj osQ laca/
            iw.kZr% jDr ls tqM+s gq, gh gksa D;ksafd izk;% larku xksn yh gqbZ Hkh gksrh gSA rkRi;Z ;g gS fd ifjokj dh ifjHkk"kk
            euq"; dh tSfod izÑfr osQ vk/kj ij ugha dh tk ldrhA mijksDr ppkZ ls ;g Li"V gks tkrk gSA




               VkLd   ifjokj osQ ewy lzksr D;k&D;k gSa\


            22-2 ifjokj% ,d izfØ;k osQ :i esa (Family: As a Process)


            ifjokj dks le>us osQ nks rjhosQ gSaA ekuo&lekt dks ,d lkoZHkkSe vkSj LFkk;h laLFkk ekurs gq, ifjokj dk
            vè;;u fd;k tk ldrk gSA vU; 'kCnksa esa] ifjokj ,d izdk;Zd bdkbZ gS ftldh ppkZ mQij dh tk pqdh gSA
            ifjokj osQ vè;;u dk nwljk rjhdk ;g gS fd bls ,d lewg ekuk tk, ;k tku&cw>dj jph xbZ lfefrA ,slh
            fLFkfr esa ifjokj osQ Lo:i vkSj varoZLrq dk vè;;u djuk iM+sxkA
            ;g ckr igys gh crk nh xbZ gS fd ifjokj dk ,d tSfod i{k gksrk gSA xHkZorh ekrk vkSj f'k'kq dks ifjokj
            osQ laj{k.k dh lokZf/d vko';drk gksrh gSA rFkkfi] osQoy ek¡ vkSj f'k'kq ls gh ifjokj ugha curk] pkgs ek¡ osQ
            lgoklh iq#"k vkSj buosQ cPpksa ls ifjokj dh izkjafHkd lnL;rk dh laiwfrZ gksrh gksA ifr&iRuh vkSj budh larkuksa
            dh bl vk/kjHkwr lewg jpuk dks dbZ ukeksa ls tkuk tkrk gSA ;Fkk] osaQnzd] fudVLFk ;k izkFkfed ifjokjA ;wa
            bu lHkh 'kCnksa dk vfHkizk; ,d leku gSA vFkkZr~] lHkh izdkj osQ ifjokjksa osQ osQUnz dh jpuk mu O;fDr;ksa ls
            gksrh gS tks larkuksRifÙk dh ykylk ls ,d&nwljs ls vkc¼ gksrs gSa vkSj viuh larkuksa osQ lkFk feydj ,d
            lqj{kkRed mRiknd lfefr dk :i xzg.k djrs gSaA
            vU; u”knhdh lacaf/;ksa osQ ;ksx ls ;fn bl osQUnz dk foLrkj gks tkrk gS] tSlk fd izk;% gksrk gS] rc bls foLr`r
            ifjokj dgk tkrk gSA foLr`r ifjokj dbZ izdkj osQ gksrs gSaA igys os] ftudk fodkl osQUnz osQ bnZ&fxnZ gksrk gS
            rFkk nwljs os] ftudk blls Hkh vf/d foLrkj gksrk gSA ;g foLrkj Lotu fl¼kar osQ iSQyko dk ifj.kke gksrk
            gSA tSls] fgUnw la;qDr ifjokjA
            ifr&iRuh dh ifjf/ rFkk blosQ osQUnz esa fLFkr jDr&lacaf/;ksa ls cuus okys ifjokj dks jDrewyd ifjokj dgk
            tkrk gSA tUe ls lacaf/r lnL;ksa ls bldh jpuk gksrh gS vkSj O;fDrxr p;u dh blesa dksbZ xaqtkb'k ugha gksrhA
            iQyr% ;g vf/d LFkkbZ gksrk gSA cPpksa osQ o;Ld gks tkus ;k fookg laaca/ksa osQ VwV tkus ls jDrewyd ifjokj
            u"V ugha gksrkA jDrewyd ifjokj vius lnL;ksa dh gj vko';drk dh iwfrZ dj ldrk gS fdUrq budh dkesPNk
            dh iwfrZ ijLij buosQ gh chp ugha gksus nsrk] rHkh rks fudV lacaf/;ksa osQ chp fookg lkoZHkkSe :i esa oftZr gSA
            blh rF; osQ dkj.k ifjokj osQ lnL;ksa osQ fy, ifr vFkok iRuh dh iwfrZ ckgj ls djuh iM+rh gSA bl izdkj
            ge ns[krs gSa fd jDrewyd ifjokjksa esa jDr laca/ksa ij fo'ks"k ”kksj fn;k tkrk gS u fd fookg laca/ksa ijA dgk
            tkrk gS fd eykckj osQ uk;jksa esa bl  'krkCnh osQ vkjaHk rd ,sls gh ifjokj dk izpyu FkkA buesa ifr dks dksbZ
            lkekftd ekU;rk ugha nh tkrh Fkh vkSj u firk dks ghA
            ge vius lekt esa ftl izdkj osQ ifjokj ls ifjfpr gSa] vFkkZr~ ftlosQ osQUnz eas firk&ekrk (nairh) vkSj budh
            larkuksa dh fLFkfr gksrh gS rFkk buosQ bnZ&fxnZ oqQN vU; lacaf/;ksa dh] mls nkaiR;dewyd ifjokj dgk tkrk
            gSA ,slk ifjokj dbZ tutkfr;ksa esa Hkh ik;k tkrk gS] tSls [kfj;kA bl ifjokj esa nkaiR; laca/ksa ij tksj fn;k tkrk
            gS] blfy, bl izdkj osQ ifjokj dk LFkkf;Ro mu lektksa esa ugha jg ikrk ftuesa fookg laca/ vfoPNs| ugha




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