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Guidance and Counseling


                   Notes          12.1 Principles of Counseling

                                  Counseling is based on a number of principles. These principles are :
                                  1.  Counseling is a process. It is necessary for the counselor to understand that counseling is a
                                      process and a slow process. Failure to understand this will result in annoyance and
                                      disappointment.
                                  2.  Counseling is for all. Especially in the school situation counseling is meant for all the students
                                      and not only for those who are facing problems or other exceptional students. As we have
                                      already discussed in the school situation Counseling is more developmental and preventive
                                      than remedial in nature.
                                  3.  Counseling is based on certain fundamental assumptions.
                                     (a) every individual in this world is capable of taking responsibilities for him/herself.
                                     (b) every individual has a right to choose his/her own path, based on the principles of democracy.

                                  4.  Counselor does not deprive the right of self-choice but simply facilitates choice. The counselor
                                      should give due respect to the individual and accept him/her as he/she is.
                                  5.  Counseling is not advice giving
                                  6.  Counseling is not thinking for the client, but thinking with the client. Counseling is for enabling
                                      the client to do judicious thinking.
                                  7.  Counseling is not problem solving. The counselor simply assist the person to find solution on
                                      his/her own.
                                  8.  Counseling is not interviewing but conversing with the client in order to help him/her develop
                                      self-understanding.
                                  9.  The counselor should determine individual differences and provide for them.
                                  10.  The counselor has to prepare the client to open to criticism including self-criticism.
                                  11.  The  counselor acts as a facilitator or catalyst only. He creates an atmosphere which is permissive
                                      and non-threatening, through his warm and accepting relationship with the client which helps
                                      the client to explore himself/herself and understand himself/herself better.
                                  12.2 Counseling Process
                                  The term ‘counseling process’ implies continuous change or changes that take place or rather which
                                  should take place in the client in promoting personality changes in a desired direction. The kind of
                                  change that the counseling process aims at is briefly: (1) awareness on the part of the client, (2)
                                  behavioural change in a desired direction through which the client can achieve his goals, and (3)
                                  understanding his potentialities, limitations and how to utilize them best in achieving his goals.
                                  The counseling process, by and large, is the same for all problems and for all individuals. However,
                                  certain important differences need to be clarified. In vocational and educational counseling the
                                  major emphasis is on collecting factual information and helping the client understand this information
                                  in a proper perspective. In such situations the emotional problems, though present, are not the main
                                  concern of the counselor. In educational and vocational counseling the decision-making and planning
                                  model occupies the counselor’s attention such that he tries to help rational problem-solving processes,
                                  clarify self-concepts, values, etc. In this context counselors are often concerned with the appropriate
                                  choice of educational goals or careers. The educational or vocational counseling usually proceeds in
                                  a stepwise manner starting with (1) establishing a relationship, (2) stating the problem, (3) elaborating
                                  and explaining the issues, (4) exploring the relevant psychological aspects of the counsellee’s
                                  background, (5) structuring the nature of the process, (6) collecting the needed data from tests, case
                                  material, personal documents, etc., (7) interpreting the test data and individual appraisal, (8)
                                  discussing the data in  the light of occupational and/or educational choices of the client, (9) discussing
                                  alternate approaches or plans and trying out the plan(s), and (10) reassessing and, if necessary,
                                  altering the plan(s).



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