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Unit 17: Counseling Services: Individual Counseling


                This may be initiated by his suggestion that “our time is all but up.” The counselor asks the  Notes
                student to summarize those aspects of the interview that were most meaningful and assists
                him, as necessary, in reviewing the objective and whether or not it was achieved. Plans for the
                future must then be made.
                Will there be another interview ? When ? Where ? Or should there be a referral ? Should tests
                be taken ? Information sources tapped ? When counselor and student have reached an
                understanding concerning how they might handle matters such as these, the counselor stands
                up (an excellent way to prevent a reopening of concerns) and sees the client to the outer office.
            7.  Planning the follow-up : After each interview the counselor  should make some brief notes as
                a check upon his own faulty memory and in order to keep a running record of what has
                transpired through the series of interviews.
                These can be reviewed briefly before the next formal contact with the student. Even though no
                immediate contact is planned with the student, a note can be made to see the student briefly
                , after a week or a month to learn whether the established objectives have been reached and
                whether the counselor can be of future assistance.
                This informal, individual follow-up can be structured to give the counselor some evidence of
                whether or not he was effective. A more comprehensive, mass follow-up is conducted separately
                as a guidance service to study groups such as all  seniors, all recent graduates, or all students
                now in technical schools.





                    Regardless of the approach utilized in a particular counselling interview, there are certain
                    general considerations to which attention should be directed. The interviewer should try
                    to put himself in the other person’s place and listen to what he has to say without base or
                    prejudice. Suggestions made or questions asked by the counselor should be given in a
                    friendly manner aimed at setting the counselee at ease and winning his confidence.

            Without seeming to hurry the interview, the interviewer should keep the conversation focused on
            the problem at hand, avoiding consideration of extraneous matters. Finally the counselee should
            leave the interview with the feeling that he has been helped by his counselor and that he can return
            for further counselling.
            A question often asked is whether or not the interviewer should take notes during the interview.
            For the purpose of evaluating the interview or in preparation for an ensuring interview, on-the-spot
            notes are better than attempts at recall after the interview. However, an emotionally disturbed
            individual may react unfavourably to seeing the counselor job down what is being said. The counselor
            can make it a practice to allow the interviewee to see what he writes and to explain its purpose.
            Usually this procedure encourages co-operation on the part of the counselee. A code may be used
            for any point which should not come to the individual’s attention. Recording an interview has value
            either if the counselee is unaware that it is being done or if he knows about it and approves. Otherwise,
            the presence of the recording equipment may inhibit free expression on the part of the counselee.
            The success of an interview depends on whether or not the counselee (1) believes that he has been
            helped, (2) is willing to return for another interview, and (3) exhibits an improved ability to meet
            and solve similar problems in the future. Whether the interviewer plays a relatively active or passive
            role, he can benefit from practicing the following “Do’s” and “Don’t’s” that are included in a handbook
            for the teachers, counselors, and principals of the Canton, Ohio, Public Schools.

            17.5. Advantages of Individual Counseling

            •   Even when couples or family counselling will follow, most family counselors will want to see
                each partner for at least one session to gather information that can better facilitate future work.




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