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                    Notes          of work about women. One element in the shaping of her young life was the insanity and apparent
                                   suicide of the one man to whom she ever seemed to have had a romantic attachment, her fiance
                                   John Worthington, a college friend of her brother James. I do not think it is the whole story. I do
                                   not think it is even a great part of the story. Yet, I take at her word the account she gives in the
                                   fourth selection of her singleness being the great benefit to her work, in effect her work being her
                                   love. In so doing, I differ with her recent biographers who have speculated about her lesbianism
                                   or absence of it, her sexuality, latent or active. R. K. Webb concludes that she was a “latent
                                   lesbian.” Pichanick disagrees with him, arguing that although Martineau had important
                                   “affectionate female friendships,” there is no evidence for her being alesbian. I believe she was
                                   probably behaviorally a sexual and emotionally sexually naive, and I think she means what she
                                   says in her Autobiography: that Worthington’s death liberated her to be alone and like it. The fifth
                                   selection, on Mary Wollstonecraft, William Godwin, and the woman question, occurs in the context
                                   of a description of William Godwin as one of her morning visitors in London in the early days of
                                   her fame in 1833.  She delighted in Godwin and greatly enjoyed his company, and, seeing no
                                   conflict of ideology loyalties, Martineau expressly denied that her interest in him arose because of
                                   his connection with Mary Wollstonecraft. Instead, she said, the opposite was true. She had no use
                                   for Wollstonecraft, while honoring Godwin. She claimed Wollstonecraft did the cause of woman
                                   a disservice, proclaiming Wollstonecraft “a poorvictim of passion, with no control over her own
                                   peace, and no calmness or content except when the needs of her individual nature were satisfied.”
                                   All that, while extolling the pleasure of visiting with the man who loved Wollstonecraft—
                                   presumably with a passion of his own—and who had done everything he could to keep her
                                   memory alive! The passion she means, of course, is not merely sexual extravagance but the
                                   exaggerated romantic flamboyance of a personality like Wollstonecraft’s. Following that judgment
                                   of Wollstonecraft, however, her comments  on the woman question sound uncharacteristically
                                   self-righteous. Her tone is hostile toward some women, but her message is still consistently that of
                                   the rational moralist. She writes calmly of her expectation that women will achieve the right to
                                   vote.
                                   24.5 Analysis

                                   If I could be providence to the world for a time, for the express purpose of raising the condition of
                                   women, I should come to you to know the means—the purpose would be to remove all interference
                                   with affection, or with any thing which is, or which even might be supposed to be, demonstrative
                                   of affection—In the present state of women minds, perfectly uneducated, and with whatever of
                                   timidity and dependance is natural to them increased a thousand fold by their habits of utter
                                   dependance, it would probably be mischievous to remove at once all restraints, they would buy
                                   themselves protectors at a dearer cost than even at present—but without raising their natures at
                                   all, it seems to me, that once give women the desire to raise their social condition, and they have
                                   a power which in the present state of civilization and of mens characters, might be made of
                                   tremendous effect. Whether nature made a difference in the nature of men and women or not, it
                                   seems now that all men, with the exception of a few lofty minded, are sensualists more or less—
                                   Women on the contrary are quite exempt from this trait, however it may appear otherwise in the
                                   cases of some—It seems strange that it should be so, unless it was meant to be a source of power
                                   in demi-civilized states such as the present—or it may not be so—it may be only that the habits of
                                   freedom and low indulgence in which boys grow up and the contrary notion of what is called
                                   purity in girls may have produced the appearance of different natures in the two sexes—As
                                   certain it is that there is equality in nothing, now—all the pleasures such as there are being mens,
                                   and all the disagreables and pains being womens, as that every pleasure would be infinitely
                                   heightened both in kind and degree by the perfect equality of the sexes. Women are educated for
                                   one single object, to gain their living by marrying—(some poor souls get it without the churchgoing



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