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ukrsnkjh dk lekt'kkL=k

uksV esa ux.; Hkwfedk fuHkkrk gSA dHkh&dHkh ek¡ dks Hkh ?kj ls ckgj dke djuk iM+rk gSA bu ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa 'kgj
esa jgus okys yksxksa us NksVs&NksVs cPpksa dh ns[kHkky osQ fy, ozsQp] ulZjh] fdaMjxkVZu vkfn tSlh fo|ky; Lrj
ls igys dh vusd ^,tsfUl;k¡* fodflr dj yh gSaA
ij 'kgj dk izHkko fliZQ mUgha yksxksa rd lhfer ugha gS tks bldh HkkSxksfyd lhekvksa osQ vanj fleVs gq, gSaA
lPpkbZ rks ;g gS fd bldk izHkko blls T;knk O;kid gS vkSj bldk gLr{ksi lekt osQ gj Lrj esa gSA

varr% gesa bl rF; dks Hkh è;ku esa j[kuk gksxk fd vk/qfud thou dh tfVyrkvksa us jkT; ij fofHkUu lkekftd
o vkfFkZd nkf;Roksa dk cks> ykn fn;k gS tks igys fliZQ ifjokj osQ ljksdkj FksA n`"Vkarksa osQ :i esa ge mu fofHkUu
lkekftd lqj{kk mik;ksa dk ftØ dj ldrs gSa tks vk/qfud jkT;ksa }kjk fØ;kfUor fd, x, gSaA

bu fofo/ izHkkoksa osQ ifj.kkeLo:i] vk/qfud ifjokj dh izR;sd fo'ks"krk ;gh trkrh gS fd Ñf"k ij vk/kfjr
;k ?kj&x`gLFkh okys ifjokj ls lacaf/r fparu osQ yacs le; ls LFkkfir ekSfyd izfreku VwV jgs gSaA
vk/qfud ifjokj dh lajpuk

bl lanHkZ esa è;ku nsus ;ksX; lcls igyh ckr ;g gS fd ukfHkdh; ifjokj us cgqr gn rd vkSj [kkldj ik'pkR;
lektksa esa lejDr ifjokj dks foLFkkfir dj fn;k gSA bl rjg osQ ifjorZu Hkkjr osQ 'kgjh {ks=kksa esa Hkh yxkrkj
n`f"Vxkspj gks jgs gSaA mRiknu dh bdkbZ osQ :i esa ifjokj osQ vkfFkZd egÙo esa ßkl us ifjokj lewg dh iqjkuh
,drk dks /Ddk igq¡pk;k gSA tc dksbZ O;fDr fdlh dkj[kkus esa ukSdjh ij ysrk gS vkSj vius ekrk&firk vkSj
Hkkb;ksa osQ iz;klksa ls Lora=k gksdj vius r;h oqQN dekus&/ekus yxrk gS rks feys&tqys ifjokj osQ O;; osQ fy,
viuh dekbZ nsus dk mldk bjknk ml gn rd e”kcwr ugha jg tkrk gS ftl gn rd ml le; Fkk tc og
vkSj mlosQ HkkbZ lkFk&lkFk tehu ij dke dj jgs FksA

nwljh è;krO; pht ifr vkSj iRuh osQ vkilh laca/ dh izÑfr esa vkus okyk cnyko gSA ukjh dh vkfFkZd Lora=krk
us fookg osQ izfr mlosQ iwjs n`f"Vdks.k dks izHkkfor fd;k gSA vc mls ¶nkrk¸ dh ryk'k ml gn rd ugha gksrh
gSA thou&lkFkh dk mldk pquko vDlj izse] Lusg] #fp ;k rsoj esa lekurk tSlh ckrksa }kjk fu/kZfjr gksrk gSA
pw¡fd vk/qfud ifjokj vc mRiknu dh bdkbZ ugha jg x;k gS] iq#"k Hkh viuh iRuh dk pquko mlosQ dkS'ky
vFkok dk;Z{kerk osQ vk/kj ij ugha cfYd bUgha ckrksa osQ vk/kj ij djrk gSA lkFk gh iq#"k o L=khµbu nksuksa
dh vkfFkZd Lora=krk us mUgsa ¶ml iSr`d fu;a=k.k o lkekftd ncko osQ vU; :iksa ls eqfDr fnyk nh gS ftudk
laca/ bl ckr ls gS fd mUgsa fdlls vkSj dc 'kknh djuh pkfg,A¸

vk/qfud ifjokj esa ifr o iRuh osQ laca/ dks ,d vyx dks.k ls ns[kk tk ldrk gSA pw¡fd Ñf"k ij vk/kfjr
ifjokj ,d vkfFkZd laxBu Fkk] blosQ fy, fdlh&u&fdlh rjg osQ usr`Ro dh ”k:jr FkhA vkerkSj ij ;g
nkf;Ro iq#"kksa osQ ikl gksrk FkkA ij vk/qfud 'kgjh ifjokj esa] usr`Ro vkSj fu;a=k.k dh vko'drk mruh T;knk
ugha gSA vr% ifr vkSj iRuh nksuksa ,d&nwljs osQ lkFk fopkj&foe'kZ djrs gSa vkSj ,sls fu.kZ;ksa ij igq¡pus dk iz;kl
djrs gSa ftuesa nksuksa dh lgefr gksA

bl lanHkZ esa rhljh è;krO; pht vk/qfud ifjokj dk rqyukRed :i ls vf/d vfLFkj Lo:i gSA vr%
vk/qfud 'kgjh ifjokjksa esa ifr o mldh iRuh osQ chp fookn dh laHkkouk,¡ iqjkus Ñf"k ij vk/kfjr ifjokjksa
dh vis{kk T;knk gSa ftuesa iRuh o ifr dh Hkwfedk,¡ lqfuf'pr gksrh FkhaA ifjokj osQ vkfFkZd o lqj{kkRed izdk;ks±
dh lekfIr rFkk ßkl tSls fofHkUu vU; dkjdksa osQ pyrs bu Hkwfedk la?k"kks± dks vkSj vf/d izksRlkgu feyrk
gSA if'pe esa gh ugha cfYd Hkkjr esa Hkh 'kgjh ifjokjksa esa rykd dh rsth ls c<+rh njsa mu rukoksa o nckoksa
dk laosQr nsrh gSa tks bu ifjokjksa ij gkoh gSaA

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