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ukrsnkjh dk lekt'kkL=k

uksV 'kq:&'kq: esa muosQ ekrk&firk dks cgqr vPNk yxrk gSA xoZ ls dgrs gSa fd muosQ cPps fons'k esa dke dj jgs
gSa ;k ogha edku cuk fy;k gS] ysfdu dkykUrj esa ;gh [kq'kh xe esa cnyrh tkrh gSA cPps rks vius lalkj esa
eLr gks tkrs gSa vkSj cw<+s ekrk&firk mudk bUrtkj djrs jgrs gSaA egkuxjksa esa cM+s&cw<+ksa dh leL;k cgqr vf/d
c<+ xbZ gSA /uh cw<+s ekrk&firk dksfB;ksa esa vosQys jgrs gSaA muosQ ikl ?kj dk dkedkt djus osQ fy, ukSdj
gksrs gSa vkSj ,d fnu ogh ukSdj mudh gR;k djosQ ?kj ywVdj ys tkrs gSaA vktdy cPpksa dh ekufldrk Hkh
cny xbZ gSA os vius ekrk&firk ;k cM+ksa dh ckr vk¡[k ew¡ndj lquuk ilan ugha djrsA tc rd NksVs gksrs gSa]
v'kDr gksrs gSa Mjdj ekrk&firk dh ckr eku ysrs gSa] ysfdu tSls gh os vkRefuHkZj cu tkrs gSa cM+ksa dh ckr
ekuuk mudh 'kku osQ f[kykiQ gks tkrk gSA mudk vga bruk c<+ tkrk gS fd ;fn cM+s dksbZ ckr dgsaxs rks os gfxZt
ugha ekusaxsA bl izdkj ifjokjksa esa lgt ekuoh; ewY; dgha [kks x;s gSaA nknh ek¡ dh I;kjh dgkfu;ksa dk uSfrd
ewY; dpjs osQ fMCcs esa fn[kkbZ iM+rs gSaA vc ;fn cM+s&cw<+s ?kj esa jgrs gSa rks NksVs cPps dh ns[kHkky ek=k dks
jg x;s gSaA
ukSdjh djus okyh fL=k;k¡] ftuosQ NksVs&NksVs cPps gSa] os vius lg;ksfx;ksa ls [kqys vke ;g dgrh gSa fd tc rd
cPps NksVs gSa lkl&llqj dks lkFk esa j[kuk gh iM+sxkA cPpksa osQ cM+s gksrs gh ge vyx gks tk;saxsA uSfrd ewY;ksa
dk bruk Hk;adj iru Hkyk ifjokj dh O;oLFkk dks oSQls vFkZiw.kZ cuk ldrk gSA vk/qfud ;qx LoPNUnrk ftKklk
dk ;qx gSA furkUr oS;fDrdrk gh ek=k jg x;k gSA igys ifjokj osQ lnL; ,d lkFk cSBdj ckrsa djrs lq[k&nq[k
ck¡Vrs FksA vius ifjokj osQ mu yksxksa osQ fo"k; esa ijLij ckrphr djrs Fks tks nwj Fks] ftldk ifj.kke gksrk Fkk
fd ?kj osQ cPps Hkh nwj jgus okys vius ifjokjtu vizR;{k :i esa gh ifjfpr gks tkrs Fks] oSlk vc oqQN ugha
jgkA ,slk ugha fd bl lcosQ fy, fdlh osQ ikl le; ughaA fdruh gh O;Lrrk gks] tks le; fudkyuk pkgrk
gS og fudky gh ysrk gSA lp ;g gS fd vkt bl lcdh vko';drk gh ugha le>h tkrhA fiNyh ih<+h osQ
yksx bl ifjorZu dks vR;Ur O;Fkk ls ,oa [kkeks'kh ls ns[krs gSa] ysfdu mls vfHkO;fDr dk vf/dkj ugha gSA
'kk;n blhfy, vkt o`¼ksa osQ fy, if'peh ns'kksa dh Hkk¡fr Hkkjr esa LFkku&LFkku ij o`¼kJe [kksys tkrs gSaA bu
fc[kjrs gq, ifjokjksa dk lcls vf/d nq"izHkko cPpksa ij iM+ jgk gS vkSj [kkfe;k”kk cw<+ksa dks Hkqxruk iM+rk gSA

uksV~l oSKkfud izxfr osQ bl ;qx esa Hkkouk dk dgha dksbZ LFkku ugha gS vkSj ets dh ckr ;g gS fd os Hkh
vius dks csgn Hkkoqd vkSj laosnu'khy Hkh dgrs gSa] ysfdu og lkjh HkkokRedrk o laosnu'khyrk
vius rd lhfer gksdj jg xbZ gSA

bl cnyrs ifjos'k esa lH;rk laLÑfr dk iru [kkeks'kh ls ns[kus flok; vkSj pkjk Hkh D;k gSA vf/d ls vf/d
leL;kvksa osQ fy, okn&fookn izfr;ksfxrk gS] oqQN lekt lsoh laLFkk,¡ xksf"B;k¡ djrh gSa] ysfdu bl leL;k dk
fujkdj.k O;kogkfjd :i esa lEHko gksrk fn[kkbZ ugha nsrkA NksVs Lo;a dks cM+ksa osQ lkeus vR;f/d cqf¼eku
izekf.kr djus dk gh iz;kl djrs gSa vkSj cM+s [kkeks'kh ls eu gh eu eqLdjkrs gq, muosQ bl vga dks Lohdkj
dj ysrs gSaA la;qDr ifjokjksa esa cPpksa dk lkekftd fodkl] cgqr vPNk gksrk gSA ,dy ifjokj cPpksa osQ LoLFk
O;fDrRo fodkl osQ fy, fdlh rjg Hkh iw.kZ ugha ekus tk ldrs] fdUrq le; dh xfr dks jksduk euq"; osQ gkFk
eas 'kk;n ugha gSA ;g leL;k ;gha ij lekIr ugha gksrh] vk'p;Z rks ;g gS fd osQoy ifr&iRuh ,d&nwljs osQ
lkFk [kq'k ugha jg ikrsA

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