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Communication Skills-II




                    notes          l    In the same way lights-green or red at traffic points, railway stations and airports, a red
                                       bulb outside the operation theatre of a hospital, a neon hoarding, a revolving light an top
                                       of a VIP vehicle or an ambulance serve their purpose very effectively without using words.
                                       Lights are also used to indicate whether somebody is in or out, and to mark the celebration
                                       of a special occasion. Colours of flags, white or black and the colours of flowers in a vase or
                                       bouquet speak volumes about the feelings of the communicator.

                                   Many of these drawings and photographs have a local or somewhat limited appeal in the sense
                                   that, at a time, only a particular section of people will be interested in them. But a very much larger
                                   number of signs, and symbols speak a ‘universal language’ understood by anybody anywhere.

                                   Audio/Sound Signals

                                   Side by side with visual, signals, audio or sound signals have always been in use since the very
                                   beginning or civilization, and have very conveniently been adopted by the world of business.
                                   Different kinds of drumbeat were used by people living in jungles in olden times, as we are told
                                   in our history and geography books. But drumbeating is very much in use in modern times also
                                   to convey or share different kinds of feelings on different occasions or celebrations. In one way or
                                   another drumbeating is essential part of many communities’ culture. Its immediate impact is to
                                   arouse and gather the hearers.

                                   Closely  allied  to  drumbeats,  so  for  as  volume  is  concerned,  are  the  alarm  signals.  There  are
                                   various kinds of alarm signals, fire alarms, accident, casualty alarms, air raid or assault alarms,
                                   VIP motorcade alarms, machine breakdown alarm and so on. Various kinds of sirens, hooters,
                                   whistlers etc., are used for these purposes. The main idea is to caution the listener and take the right
                                   step. Blowing a horn serves a similar purpose. A clock or watch alarms makes us aware of time and
                                   programme our schedule.
                                   No office is complete without a buzzer, press button bell, electrically operated bell and other
                                   such sound signaling systems. They put the concerned people on alert, send out signals whether
                                   a visitor is welcome or whether it is time to leave.

                                   Touch

                                   This mode of communication is our earliest means of making contact with others. It has actually
                                   become essential to human development. Babies and children need to be touched in order to
                                   grow, flourish, and avoid numerous health problems. Touch even seems to improve a child’s
                                   mental functioning as well as physical health. In our life touch plays an important role in how we
                                   respond to others and to our environment, and it can communicate many messages. When we
                                   appreciate someone, we pat on his back. Parents and elders bless their younger ones by touching
                                   their head. Younger people express respect by touching the feet of elderly people. By shaking
                                   hands, we show our warmth and affection to each other. When two friends after a long gap hug
                                   each other, it shows their warmth and affection.
                                   Touching can show tenderness, affection, encouragement and the full range of emotions.


                                          Example: The infant begins its communicative life largely through the sense of touch. As
                                   the baby is a hugged, kissed, cradled, cuddled and stroked, human exchange being to unfold.
                                   Psychologists contend that the denial of extensive touching can have untold negative impact
                                   upon the infant’s development.
                                   Touching actions serve as regulators. They act as both conveyors and elicitors of positive as well
                                   as negative feelings. Touching conveys the total range from highly impersonal to highly personal
                                   meanings. The touch will be of four types:





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