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Unit 14: Closing the Deal and Post Negotiation Evaluation
Moving Past Stalemate Notes
Review the concessions both parties have already made
Utilize a third party
Handle emotions
Move to informal negotiations
14.7 Tactics for Success
Asking the Right Questions:
Use open-ended questions to elicit creative thinking: “Do you think?”
Use window question that calls for opponent to explain position: “What were you saying
about . . .?”
Use series of questions to promote dialogue: “Exactly what . . .? Is there flexibility. . .?”
Question to uncover hidden concerns: “Am I missing something?”
Question to enhance creativity: “Have you considered. . .?”
14.8 Bargaining Traps
Conflict spiral occurs when one party initiates a contentious communication and the other
party responds in kind; which elicits another contentious communication and so on
How to break conflict spirals?
Refocus negotiations by not reciprocating
Respond with mix of contentious and noncontentious
Label behavior as unproductive
Psychological entrapment occurs when a party escalates commitment to a previously
chosen, though failing, course of action and becomes so invested in reaching agreement,
no longer cares if it’s a good agreement.
To avoid psychological entrapment
Make sure to establish BATNA at start
Be willing to walk away rather than give into anything less than original BATNA.
14.9 Joint Problem Solving to Avoid Bargaining Traps
Diagnose the problem
Reexamine goals to set realistic target
Reframing a change as “new direction” not as “giving in”
Reduce target
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