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Unit 23: Psychotherapy: Cognitive Approach


            that were okay. But, instead, she stays at home, brooding about her failure to go in and ends up  Notes
            thinking: “I’ve let everyone down. They will be angry with me. Why can’t I do what everyone else
            does? I’m so weak and useless.” That woman probably ends up feeling worse, and has even more
            difficulty going in to work the next day. Thinking, behaving and feeling like this may start a
            downward spiral. This vicious circle can apply to many different kinds of problems.

            23.4.2 Origination of Negative Thoughts
            Beck suggested that these thinking patterns are set up in childhood, and become automatic and
            relatively fixed. So, a child who didn’t get much open affection from their parents but was praised
            for school work, might come to think, “I  have to do well all the time. If I don’t, people will reject
            me.” Such a rule for living (known as a dysfunctional assumption) may do well for the person a lot
            of the time and help them to work hard.
            But if something happens that’s beyond their control and they experience failure, then the
            dysfunctional thought pattern may be triggered. The person may then begin to have  automatic
            thoughts like, “I’ve completely failed. No one will like me. I can’t face them.”
            Cognitive-behavioral therapy acts to help the person understand that this is what’s going on. It
            helps him or her to step outside their automatic thoughts and test them out. CBT would encourage
            the depressed woman mentioned earlier to examine real-life experiences to see what happens to
            her, or to others, in similar situations. Then, in the light of a more realistic perspective, she may be
            able to take the chance of testing out what other people think, by revealing something of her difficulties
            to friends.
            Clearly, negative things can and do happen. But when we are in a disturbed state of mind, we may
            be basing our predictions and interpretations on a biased view of the situation, making the difficulty
            that we face seem much worse. CBT helps people to correct these misinterpretations.

            23.5 Different Sessions of Cognitive Treatment (CBT)

            Cognitive-behavioral therapy differs from many other types of psychotherapies because sessions
            have a structure. rather than the person talking freely about whatever comes to mind. At the beginning
            of the therapy, the client meets the therapist to describe specific problems and to set goals they want
            to work towards. The problems may be trouble some symptoms, such as sleeping badly, not being
            able to socialize with friends, or difficulty concentrating on reading or work. Or they could be life
            problems, such as being unhappy at work, having trouble dealing with an adolescent child, or being
            in an unhappy marriage.
            These problems and goals then become the basis for planning the content of sessions and discussing
            how to deal with them. Typically, at the beginning of a session, the client and therapist will jointly
            decide on the main topics they want to work on this week. They will also allow time for discussing
            the conclusions from the previous session. And they will look at the progress made with the homework
            the client set for him- or herself last time. At the end of the session, they will plan another assignment
            to do outside the sessions.
            Doing Homework
            Working on homework assignments between sessions, in this way, is a vital part of the process .
            What this may involve will vary. For example, at the start of the therapy, the therapist might ask the
            client to keep a diary of any incidents that provoke feelings of anxiety or depression, so that they
            can examine thoughts surrounding the incident. Later on in the therapy, another assignment might
            consist of exercises to cope with problem situations of a particular kind.

            The importance of structure
            The reason for having this structure is that it helps to use the therapeutic time most efficiently. It
            also makes sure that important information isn’t missed out (the results of the homework, for instance)
            and that both therapist and client think about new assignments that naturally follow on from the
            session.


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