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tc lsokFkhZ viuh dfBukbZ dks ijke'kZnkrk osQ le{k izLrqr dj jgk gks rks eè; esa]
micksèkd dks lkekU; LohÑfr lwpd mÙkj tSls& gw¡] gk¡ vkfn nsrs jguk pkfg,A blls
ek=k ;g Kkr gksrk gS fd ijke'kZnkrk lsokFkhZ dks Lohdkj dj mls le> jgk gSA

ijke'kZ }kjk vuqHko (Counseling-Experiences)

ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k osQ fujUrj micksèk dks fofHkUu vuqHko izkIr gksrs gSaA bu vuqHkoksa ls ykHkkfUor gksus gsrq
micksèku osQ l=k dh iwoZ rS;kjh djuh vko';d gSA micksèk dks lsokFkhZ osQ ckjs esa vko';d iznÙk ,oa iw.kZ tkudkjh
izkIr djuh pkfg,A micksèkd dks lsokFkhZ osQ ckjs esa vko';d iznÙk ,oa iwoZ tkudkjh izkIr djuh pkfg,A micksèku
,oa lsokFkhZ osQ feyus dk LFkku 'kkUr gksuk pkfg,A ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k ls igys] micksèkd ,oa lsokFkhZ osQ eè; lEcUèk
LFkkfir djuk Hkh vko';d gSA D;ksafd ijke'kZ dh liQyrk gsrq lEcUèk ,d vR;Ur egRoiw.kZ rRo ekuk tkrk
gSA ijLij lEcUèk osQ Lo:i osQ ckjs esa Mhñ ,lñ vkfjfofdy us fy[kk gS&
^^lEcUèk dh fLFkfr dks lsokFkhZ ,oa ijke'kZnkrk osQ eè; fodflr vkn'kZ lEcUèk dgk tk ldrk gS] ;g ,d ,slk
lEcUèk gS tks ljy lq[kn rFkk LorU=k gksrk gS] tgk¡ izR;sd O;fDr bZekunkj gSA**
"Rapport might be described as the ideal relationship that is developed between the client and the
counseller, relationship that is easy and comfortable and free, where each person can be honest."
vkfjfofdy }kjk micksèku osQ fujUrj leL;kvksa dk Hkh mYys[k fd;k x;k gSA bu leL;kvksa dk lekèkku djus gsrq
micksèkd dks fuEufyf[kr ckrksa dks è;ku esa j[kuk pkfg,&

1- ijke'kZnkrk dks lsokFkhZ dks ;g vuqHko djk nsuk pkfg, fd vU; l=kksa osQ leku] vkjfEHkd
l=k Hkh lsokFkhZ ls gh lEcfUèkr gS rFkk micksèku dk osQUnz fcUnq lsokFkhZ gh gSA
2- ijke'kZnkrk dks vius dk;ks± dks iw.kZ fu"Bk osQ lkFk djus pkfg,A mlosQ fy, ;g vfuok;Z :i
ls LFkku nsA
3- l=k&lekfIr osQ le; micksèk dks lsokFkhZ dks ;g dg nsuk pkfg, fd og mlls iqu% feyus
esa :fp j[krk gSA
4- lsokFkhZ vius eu esa micksèkd dh ,d izfrek cuk ysrk gSA micksèku osQ fujUrj lsokFkhZ viuh
cukbZ xbZ ml izfrek ls micksèkd dh tk¡p djrk gS rFkk ;g ns[krk gS fd og mlosQ }kjk
cukbZ xbZ izfrek ls fdruh lekurk ,oa fofHkUurk j[krk gSA
5- tc ijke'kZ vFkok vkjfEHkd l=k (Beginning Session) gh mldk vfUre l=k (Concluding
Session) Hkh gks rc micksèkd ;g eku ldrk gS fd izFke l=k dk eq[; dk;Z ,d ,slk èkukRed
okrkoj.k (Positive-Climate) mRiUu djrk gSA ftlls lsokFkhZ viuh leL;kvksa osQ ckjs esa fopkj
gsrq iqu% vkus dh bPNk j[ksaA
ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k osQ vUrxZr lsokFkhZ osQ vUrfoZdkl (Development from with) esa mldks lgk;rk iznku dh
tkrh gSA micksèku dk dk;Z rHkh liQy gks ldrk gS tc micksèkd lsokFkhZ dks vius fopkjksa ,oa fLFkfr;ksa dks O;fDr
djus gsrq mfpr volj ns rFkk lsokFkhZ dks ,d egRoiw.kZ O;fDr ekusA fujk'kk] vkRe&fo'okl dk u gksuk] Lo;a
dks egRoghu le>us esa gh dqlek;kstu dk ewy gksrk gSA micksèku dh izfØ;k }kjk lsokFkhZ esa blh egRo rFkk
vkRefo'okl dks iSnk fd;k tkrk gSA
lkjka'k osQ :i esa] ;g dgk tk ldrk gS fd micksèku dh izfØ;k] ,d xR;kRed izfØ;k gSA tc micksèk ,oa lsokFkhZ
ijLij lEcUèkksa dh leqfpr i`"BHkwfe cukus esa liQy gks tkrs gSa vkSj mís';ksa ,oa y{;ksa osQ vuq:i micksèk dk os
mi;ksx djrs gSaA rHkh micksèk dh izfØ;k lkFkZd ,oa liQy ekuh tk ldrh gSA

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