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bdkbZ—12: fookg% fookg dh vo/kj.kk] izdkj ,oa egÙo
fookg dgykrk gS vkSj bls dkuwuh rkSj ij oS/ ekuk tkrk gSA ij vxj dksbZ yM+dh lksbZ gqbZ gks] u'ks esa gks ;k uksV
ekufld :i ls vlarqfyr gks rks mlosQ lkFk lgokl vkSj fookg dks iS'kkp fookg dgrs gSaA lH;&thou osQ
rkSj&rjhdksa osQ mYya?ku osQ dkj.k bldh rhoz HkRlZuk dh xbZ gSA
;g è;krO; gS fd fgUnw fof/ osÙkkvksa us fofHkUu izdkj osQ fookgksa dks ekU;rk nsdj vusd tfVy lkekftd
leL;kvksa dk lek/ku <w¡<+us dh ps"Vk dh gSA vrhr esa mÙkj&if'pe dh vksj ls Hkkjr ij vusd vkØe.k gq,
gSaA ns'k osQ Hkhrj Hkh xSj&vk;ks± dh ,d cgqr cM+h la[;k n`f"Vxkspj gqbZ gSA ftuosQ lkFk vk;ks± dk laioZQ jgk gSA
,d osQ ckn ,d vkizoklh vkSj LFkkuh; xSj vk;ks± osQ lewgksas osQ dkj.k vuSfrd ;kSu&laca/ osQ ekeys Hkh lkeus
vk, vkSj ifj.kkeLo:i vfookfgr fL=k;ksa osQ cPps gks x,A cM+h rknkn esa voS/ cPpksa dh mifLFkfr osQ dkj.k
tks leL;k,¡ mB [kM+h gqbZ mudk lek/ku vigj.k] iyk;u vkfn dks fookg osQ oqQN :iksa osQ :i esa ekU;rk
nsus ls gh laHko gks ldk ;|fi bl rjg osQ fookgksa dks okafNr ugha ekuk tkrk FkkA bl i{k ij fVIi.kh djrs
gq, ,-,y- ck'ke dgrs gSa% ¶cM+s vk'p;Ztud <ax ls laca/ksa osQ ,d O;kid nk;js dks ekU;rk nh xbZ rkfd vius
izseh }kjk 'khy&Hkax dh f'kdkj ;k ckgjh mBkbZxhjksa }kjk tcju ys tkbZ xbZ yM+dh dks iRuh dk oS/kfud vf/dkj
fey losQ vkSj mlosQ cPps dks uktk;t gksus dk nq[k ugha Hkksxuk iM+s¸A
D;k vki tkurs gSa fookg laLdkj osQ varxZr vusd vuq"Bkuksa vkSj ;K&;ktuksa dk fu"iknu gksrk gSA
eqfLyeksa esa fookg
eqfLye fookg /kfeZd ÑR; ugha gS cfYd ,d /eZ fujis{k ca/u gSA lkgp;Z dh fuf"k¼ lhek,a dkiQh de gSaA
vr% ppsjs HkkbZ&cguksa vkSj izkFkfed lekUrj ukrsnkjksa esa Hkh fookg gks ldrk gSA oqQN eqlyeku iq#"k vusd
fL=k;ksa ls fookg dj ldrk gSA 'krZ osQoy ;g gS fd nks cgusa ;k cqvk vkSj Hkrhth ,d gh O;fDr dh iRuh
ugha gks ldrh vkSj ,d le; esa dksbZ O;fDr pkj ls vf/d ifRu;k¡ ugha j[k ldrkA eqlyeku viuh fnoaxr
iRuh dh cgu ls ;k vius cPpksa osQ lkl&llqj ls 'kknh dj ldrs gSaA eqlyeku xSj&eqfLye L=kh ls Hkh 'kknh
dj ldrk gS vxj og ;gwnh ;k bZlkbZ tSls fdlh xSj&ewfrZiwtd /kfeZd laiznk; ls lacaf/r gSA ij eqlyeku
L=kh dks ;gh vf/dkj leku :i ls izkIr ugha gSaA
,d dkuwuh&nLrkos”k ij gLrk{kj osQ }kjk fookg dks lqn`<+ vuqca/ dk :i fn;k tkrk gS ftls rksM+k Hkh tk ldrk
gS ij rykd ifr osQ fo'ks"kkf/dkj osQ varxZr vkus okyh pht gSA og fcuk fdlh dkj.k osQ rykd ns ldrk
gSA de ls de nks xokgksa dh mifLFkfr esa vxj fliZQ rhu ckj rykd 'kCn dgk tk, rks ifr vkSj iRuh osQ chp
laca/&foPNsn gks ldrk gSA ij blosQ ckn ifr dks HkjikbZ osQ :i esa oqQN fu;r jkf'k iRuh dks nsuh iM+rh gSA
;g ,d vuqca/ osQ rgr gksrk gS ftlosQ }kjk e`R;q vkSj rykd dh fLFkr esa iRuh {kfr iwfrZ osQ :i esa ifr dh
laifÙk dk ,d [kkl fgLlk ikus dh gdnkj gksrh gSA iRuh fookg osQ ca/u ls eqDr gks ldrh gS vxj bl n`f"V
ls mlus ifr dh lgefr gkfly dj yh gksA ;g lgefr vfuok;Z gS vxj ifr vkSj iRuh laca/&foPNsn vkilh
lgefr osQ vk/kj ij gksrk gS rks bls ^eqckjr* dgk tkrk gSA oqQN [kkl ifjfLFkfr;ksa esa bLyke iRuh dks ,d
i{kh; dne mBkus dh vuqefr nsrk gSA fo/ok L=kh dk iqufoZokg Hkkjrh; eqlyekuksa esa vkerkSj ij izpfyr gSA
12-4 fgUnw fookg osQ Lo:i (Forms of Hindu Marriage)
fookg osQ Lo:i ls gekjk rkRi;Z fookg cU/u esa ca/us dh fofHkUu fof/;ksa ls gSA euq us vkB izdkj ossQ fookgksa
dk mYys[k fd;k gS] fdUrq of'k"B us osQoy N% izdkj osQ fookgksa dks gh crk;k gSA euq dk dguk gS fd izFke
pkj izdkj osQ fookg czkã] nSo] vk"kZ vkSj iztkiR; Js"B ,oa /ekZuqlkj gSa tcfd 'ks"k pkj vlqj] xU/oZ] jk{kl
vkSj fi'kkp fuÑ"V dksfV osQ gSaSA izFke pkj izdkj osQ fookgksa ls mRiUu ;'kLoh] 'khyoku] lEifÙkoku vkSj
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