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ukrsnkjh dk lekt'kkL=k

uksV fookg esa ifr }kjk ,d iRuh ,oa iRuh }kjk ,d ifr ls ifj.k; ,d fookg dgykrk gSA
fookg esa ,d ls vf/d thou lkfFk;ksa ls ifj.k; dk izpyu cgqfookg dgykrk gSA cgqfookg nks rjg osQ gks
ldrs gSa% (i) cgqiRuh fookg (ii) cgqifr fookgA
tc dksbZ iq#"k ,d ls vf/d fL=k;ksa ls fookg djrk gS rks mls cgqiRuh fookg dgrs gSaA tc dksbZ O;fDr vusd
cguksa ls 'kknh djrk gS rks ;g Hkfxuh la?kh; cgqiRuh fookg (lksjksjy iksyhxkbuh) dgykrk gSA
tc dksbZ L=kh ,d le; esa ,d ls vf/d iq#"kksa ls fookg djrh gS rks mls cgqifr fookg (iksyh,UMªh) dgrs
gSaA cgqifr fookg nks rjg ls gks ldrk gSµHkzkr`; ;k ^,MsfYiQd* cgqifr fookg vkSj vkHkzkr`; cgqifr fookg vkSj
vkHkzkr`; cgqifr fookgA tc dksbZ L=kh ,d le; esa vusd Hkkb;ksa ls fookg djrh gS rks bls Hkzkr`; (iSQVuZy)
cgqifr fookg osQ uke ls tkuk tkrk gSA egkHkkjr esa nzkSinh vkSj ik.Mo Hkkb;ksa dk fookg bldk egÙoiw.kZ
mnkgj.k gSA VksMk tutkfr esa ;g fookg dkiQh izpfyr gSA tc fdlh L=kh osQ vusd ifr gksrs gSa tks vfuok;Zr%
,d nwljs osQ HkkbZ ugha gksrs gSa rks ,sls fookg dks vkHkzkr`; ifr fookg djrs gSaA
bl lanHkZ esa ge nks izdkj osQ cgqfookgksa dk ftØ dj ldrs gSa ftUgsa nsoj&HkkHkh fookg (ysfojsV) vkSj
thtk&lkyh fookg (lksjksjsV) dgrs gSaA
vius e`r HkkbZ ;k fnoaxr HkkbZ dh fuLlarku fo/ok iRuh ls fdlh O;fDr dk fookg ^ysfojsV* dgykrk gSA ftl
fdlh lanHkZ esa ifr dh e`R;q osQ ckn okLrfod izdkj osQ ^ysfojsV* dk pyu gSA ogk¡ e`rd osQ Hkkb;ksa esa ls ,d
dk ;g uSfrd dÙkZO; gks tkrk gS fd og fo/ok ls fookg djsA muosQ lgokl ls tks cPps iSnk gksrs gSa mUgsa e`r
O;fDr dh larfr;ksa osQ :i esa ekU;rk nh tkrh gSA
tgk¡ okLrfod lksjksjsV dk pyu gS] ogk¡ ck¡> L=kh dk ifr mldh cgu ls 'kknh djrk gS vkSj de ls de oqQN
cPpksa dks tks muosQ lgokl ls mRiUu gksrs gSa] fu%larku iRuh osQ cPpksa osQ :i esa fxuk tkrk gSA lksjksjsV in dk
bLrseky izFkkxr n`f"V ls Hkh gksrk gS ftlosQ }kjk iRuh dh e`R;q osQ ckn mlosQ lxs&laca/h fo/qj dks e`rdk dh
cfgu ls fookg djus dh vuqefr nsrk gSA ;gk¡ ;g è;krO; gS fd tks cPps bl L=kh ls iSnk gksrs gSa os ml e`r
cgu osQ ugha cfYd thfor L=kh osQ ekus tkrs gSaA
^ysfojsV* vkSj ^lksjksjsV* varjikfjokfjd nkf;Roksa dh LohÑfr ij cy Mkyrs gSa vkSj fookg dks fliZQ nks O;fDr;ksa
osQ chp ugha cfYd nks ifjokjksa osQ chp ca/u osQ :i esa ekU;rk nsrs gSaA
ge ,d vkSj izdkj osQ cgqfookg dk ftØ dj ldrs gSa ftls lewg fookg (xzqi eSjst) dgrs gSaA tc nks ;k
nks ls vf/d nwYgksa dk ,d gh lkFk nks ;k vf/d nwYguksa ls fookg gksrk gS rks bls lewg fookg dgk tkrk gSA
;g cgqiRuh fookg vkSj cgqifr fookg dk feyk&tqyk :i gS tks czkthy osQ dkbu xk¡xw uked tutkfr esa vkSj
ekDosZluksa esa Hkh ;nk&dnk ns[kus esa vkrk gSA
([k) thou&lkFkh osQ pquko osQ vk/kj ij oxhZdj.k% tc fookg osQ fy, thou lkfFk;ksa dk pquko ,d
nwljs osQ }kjk fd;k tkrk gS rks bls jksekal ij vk/kfjr fookg ;k izse&fookg dgrs gSaA tc budk pquko
vfHkHkkodksa ;k lacaf/;ksa ;k fe=kksa }kjk gksrk gS rks bls O;ofLFkr fookg dh laKk nh tkrh gSA
tc fookg fliZQ mUgha yksxkssa osQ chp vuq'kaflr gksrk gS tks ,d gh lewg ls tqM+s gksrs gSa rks mls vrfoZokg dgrs
gSaA blesa lewg ls ckgj fookg fuf"k¼ gksrk gSA ge bl lanHkZ esa tutkrh; varfoZokg] tkrh; varfoZokg]
oxkZ/kfjr varfoZokg] iztkrh; varfoZokg vkfn dk mYys[k dj ldrs gSaA fofp=k] ubZ vkSj vKkr phtksa osQ izfr
ge lcosQ eu esa tks xgjk Hk; gksrk gS mlosQ dkj.k yxHkx lHkh Hkkjrh; tutkfr;k¡ varfoZokg dks ekU;rk nsrh
gaSA
dHkh dHkkj fdlh [kkl laca/h ls fookg dks izkFkfedrk nh tkrh gS ;k mldh vuq'kalk dh tkrh gSA vr% xks.M
tu&tkfr osQ yksxksa osQ fy, vius r`rh;d ukrsnkjksa ls fookg djuk t:jh gksrk gSA vxj dksbZ O;fDr vius r;h
bl izko/ku dh voekuuk djrk gS rks dekus okys i{k dks HkjikbZ osQ :i esa mls tqekZuk nsuk iM+rk gSA xlu
us ik;k fd xks.Mksa esa gksus okys 54» fookg blh dksfV osQ FksA [kfM+;k vkSj mjk¡o tutkfr;ksa esa Hkh r`rh;d ukrsnkjksa

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