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Unit 1: Speaking Skills





          l    Intimate touch: A child and mother usually touch to each other to shower affection. Two   notes
               friends/brothers meet each other after a long gap is also an intimate touch.
          l    Friendly touch: When two people meet, they touch their shoulders and back to show their
               warmth and it is a friendly touch.

          l    Professional touch: Doctor examines their patients by touching. Surgeons operate their
               patients.
          l    Social touch: Handshake is one of the commonest forms of this kind of touch. When a
               teacher touches his student to encourage him, it is social touch. By touching the head of
               younger ones, blessings are bestowed by the elder ones.

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             Case Study  Wave: advertising radio fm Brand

                   young, gorgeous woman is standing in front of her apartment window dancing
                   to the 1970s tune, “All Right Now” by the one-hit band Free. Across the street a
             A young man looks out of his apartment window and notices her. He moves closer
             to the window, taking interest. She cranks up the volume and continues dancing, looking
             out the window at the fellow, who smiles hopefully and waves meekly. He holds up a
             bottle of wine and waves it, apparently inviting her over for a drink. The lady waves back.
             He kisses the bottle and, excitedly says, “Yes.” Then, he gazes around his apartment and
             realizes that it is a mess. “No,” he exclaims in a worried tone of voice. Frantically, he does
             his best to quickly clean up the place, stuffing papers under the sofa and putting old food
             back in the refrigerator. He slips on a black shirt, slicks back his hair, sniffs his armpit, and
             lets out an excited, “Yeah!” in eager anticipation of entertaining the young lady. He goes
             back the window and sees the woman still dancing away. He points to his watch, as if to
             say “Come on. It’s getting late.” As she just continues dancing, he looks confused. Then a
             look of sudden insight appears on his face “Five,” he says to himself. He turns on his radio
             and it “too is playing” All Right Now The man goes to his window and starts dancing as
             he watches his lady friend continue stepping. “Five, yeah,” he says as he makes the “okay”
             sign with his thumb and forefinger. He waves again. Everyone in the apartment building
             is dancing by their window to “All Right Now.” A super appears on the screen: “Are you
             on the right wavelength?”
             Questions
             1.   Why  do  you  suppose  that  this  commercial  relies  primarily  on  non-verbal
                 communication between a young man and a gorgeous woman?
             2.   Would  any  of  the  non-verbal  communications  in  this  spot  (ad)  not  work  well  in
                 another culture?



          self assessment

          Fill in the blanks:
          8.   Non-verbal communication is ………………… to verbal communication.

          9.   Kinesics means ………………… .
          10.   ………………… expressions are a part of body language.
          11.   ………………… are the physical movements of arms, legs and limbs.





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