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Conflict Management and Negotiation Skills




                    Notes          4.23 Non-linear Negotiating Process

                                                                     Figure  4.4

                                                                    Preparation








                                                                                    Negotiation
                                                        Evaluation







                                                                    Outcomes and
                                                                     Information
                                   So instead of  setting your course based on pre- negotiation information, consider doing the
                                   following:

                                   1.  Take small steps, gathering better information as you proceed.
                                   2.  Continually learn from new information and the behaviour of the other side.
                                   3.  Use that learning to adjust and re-adjust your course as you move forward.
                                   Evaluation is  another important element of the process,  and should  be part of your  tactics.
                                   Periodically, you should put a little distance between yourself and the negotiations and ask:
                                   How are things going? Are negotiations proceeding along a track that will eventually serve my
                                   goals? Are they playing my game, or am I playing theirs? Whose frame dominates the talks? If
                                   I were representing the other side, how would I answer these questions?

                                   4.23.1 Barriers in Agreement


                                   Typical barriers to negotiated agreements and what you can do to overcome or eliminate them:
                                   1.  Die-hard bargainers will pull for every advantage and try to make every concession come
                                       from you. You can deal with these people if you understand the game they are playing,
                                       withhold useful information from  them  (they’ll  only use  it  against  you) unless  they
                                       demonstrate a willingness to reciprocate, and make it clear that you don’t mind walking
                                       away. If you don’t want to walk away- or cannot – do whatever you can to strengthen your
                                       position and your alternative to a deal.

                                   2.  Lack of trust is a serious impediment to making a deal. Nevertheless, agreements are
                                       possible if you take precautions, require enforcement mechanisms, build incentives for
                                       compliance into the deal, and insist on compliance transparency.
                                   3.  It’s difficult to make a deal – and impossible to create value – in the absence of information.
                                       What are the other side’s interests? What does it have to offer? What is it willing to trade?
                                       Ironically, fear of advantaging the other side encourages parties to withhold the information
                                       needed to create value for both sides. Each is reluctant to be the first to open up. This is the
                                       negotiator’s dilemma. The solution to this dilemma is cautious, mutual, and incremental
                                       information  sharing.




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