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bdkbZ—1% funsZ'ku % vFkZ] izÑfr rFkk {ks=k

gksrh gS] og lgk;rk funsZ'ku osQ vUrxZr gh lfEefyr dh tkrh gS] bl izdkj dh lgk;rk iznku djus okys uksV
O;fDr dks funsZ'ku&iznkrk vFkok funsZ'ku&dehZ osQ uke ls lEcksfèkr dj ldrs gSa] fo|ky; esa dk;Z djus okys
f'k{kd izèkkukpk;Z] lg&dehZ] ifjokj osQ lnL; rFkk lekt esa fe=k] lg&ikBh] izopd vkfn O;fDr funsZ'ku
iznkrk osQ :i esa gh Lohdkj fd;s tkus pkfg;sA
bu rF;ksa osQ vkèkkj ij Li"V gS fd funsZ'ku dh izfØ;k lqèkkjkRed vk;ke osQ LFkku ij fodklkRed vk;ke
osQ :i esa gh ifjHkkf"kr dh tkuh vfèkd lkFkZd gS] D;ksafd fof'k"V lsok osQ :i esa ;g izfØ;k leL;k&osQfUnzr
gksus osQ LFkku ij lsokFkhZ&osQfUnzr gh vfèkd gksrh gSA fof'k"V lsok osQ :i esa vFkkZfir bl vk;ke osQ vusd
nks"k gSaA bl :i esa ifjHkkf"kr funsZ'ku dks fo|ky; dh vkuq"kafxd lsok osQ :i esa igpkuk tkrk gSA ;g lsok
oqQN fof'k"V izdkj osQ ckydksa rd gh lhfer jgrh gS rFkk lkekU; Js.kh osQ ckydksa dks bl izdkj osQ funsZ'ku
osQ ekè;e ls dksbZ fo'ks"k lgk;rk izkIr ugha gks ikrh gSA blosQ fof'k"V lsok vk;ke osQ vUrxZr fo|ky; esa
dk;Zjr ijke'kZnkrk dh Hkwfedk gh lokZfèkd egRoiw.kZ le>h tkrh gSA blosQ ifj.kkeLo:i] fo|ky; esa dk;Zjr
vU; O;fDr;ksa dh Hkwfedk izk;% misf{kr Hkh jgrh gSA ;g Hkh mYys[kuh; gS fd bl izfØ;k osQ vUrxZr O;fDr
dks ,d ;U=k osQ leku le>dj lgk;rk iznku dh tkrh gS] tcfd mfpr ;g gS fd O;fDr dks ,d xfr'khy
izk.kh osQ :i esa gh lgk;rk iznku djus dh O;oLFkk dh tkuh pkfg;sA
,d vU; vk;ke osQ vkèkkj ij funsZ'ku dks lgk;rk iznku djus okyh izfØ;k osQ :i esa izn£'kr fd;k tkrk
gS ftlosQ vUrxZr funsZ'ku dk mÙkjnkf;Ro lHkh dk Lohdkj fd;k tkrk gS ;k fdlh dk Hkh ughaA f'k{kd ;ksX;rk]
:fp] {kerk] fuiq.krk bR;kfn dks] bl izdkj osQ funsZ'ku esa fo'ks"k egRo iznku fd;k tkrk gSA

funsZ'ku dk mís'; O;fDr dh leL;kvksa dk lekèkku djuk ugha gS] vfirq blosQ vkèkkj ij fdlh
O;fDr dks bl ;ksX; cuk;k tkrk gS fd og viuh leL;kvksa dk lekèkku djus esa Lo;a gh l{ke
gks losQA

funsZ'ku osQ mijksDr vFkZ dks Li"V djus osQ vfrfjDr] blosQ vk'k; osQ lUnHkZ esa oqQN ifjHkk"kkvksa dk Hkh mYys[k
fd;k tk ldrk gSA ;|fi funsZ'ku dh dksbZ loZekU; ifjHkk"kk vHkh rd izLrqr ugha dh tk ldrh gS] ijUrq
fiQj Hkh] bu ifjHkk"kkvksa osQ vkèkkj ij funsZ'ku osQ vFkZ dks le>us esa lgk;rk izkIr gks losQxhA bl izdkj dh
oqQN ifjHkk"kk,¡ vxzfyf[kr gSaμ
'kysZ gSefju (Shirley Hamrin) osQ 'kCnksa esaμ¶O;fDr osQ Lo;a oQks igpkuus esa bl izdkj lgk;rk iznku djuk]
ftlls og vius thou esa vkxs c<+ losQ] bl izfØ;k dks funsZ'ku dgk tkrk gSA¸
ysL:Vj Mh- Øks rFkk ,ykbZl Øks (Lester D. Crow and Alice Crow)μus viuh iqLrd ^,u bUVªksMD'ku
Vw xkbMSUl* esa funsZ'ku dks ifjHkkf"kr djrs gq, fy[kk gSμ¶funsZ'ku ls rkRi;Z] funsZ'ku osQ fy;s Lo;a fu.kZ; ysus
dh vis{kk fu.kZ; dj nsuk ugha gS vkSj u gh nwljs osQ thou dk cks> <ksuk gSA blosQ foijhr] ;ksX; ,oa izf'kf{kr
O;fDr }kjk] nwljs O;fDr dks] pkgs og fdlh Hkh vk;q oxZ dk gks] viuh thou fØ;kvksa dks Lo;a xfBr djus]
vius futh n`f"Vdks.k fodflr djus] vius fu.kZ; Lo;a ys ldus rFkk viuk Hkkj Lo;a ogu djus esa lgk;rk
djuk gh okLrfod funsZ'ku gSA¸
“Guidance is not giving directions. It is not the imposition of one person’s point of view upon
another person. It is not making decisions for an individual which he should make for himself.
It is not carrying the burdens of another’s life. Rather, guidance is assistance made available be
personally qualified and adequately trained men or women to an individual of any age to help
him manage his own life active, development his own point of view, make this own decisions,
and carry out his own burden.” –Crow and Crow

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