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bdkbZ—23: la;qDr ifjokj% izdkj ,oa dk;Z

vf/d vuqHkoh gksrs gSaA os vius vuqHkoksa osQ vk/kj ij Hkkoh ih<+h dks funsZf'kr djrs gSaA fodV ifjfLFkfr esa uksV
tc ;qok lnL; viuk /S;Z [kks cSBrs gSa vkSj fujk'kk osQ ?kksj va/dkj esa xksrs yxkrs gSa rc os vuqHkoh lnL; gh
muosQ iFk&izn'kZd osQ :i esa dk;Z djrs gSaA
4- euksjatu% la;qDr ifjokj esa lnL;ksa dh vf/drk osQ dkj.k ;g euksjatu dh lLrh o mi;qDr LFkyh gSA lkjs
le; ifjokj esa euksjatu dk okrkoj.k o pgy&igy cuh jgrh gSA dosZ dgrh gSa fd la;qDr ifjokj esa gj le;
oqQN&u&oqQN gksrk gh jgrk gSA dHkh fdlh yM+osQ ;k yM+dh dh 'kknh gS rks dHkh ukedj.k laLdkj dk mRlo
gks jgk gSA dHkh u;h nqYgu ls igyh ckj Hkkstu cuokus dh jLe djok;h tk jgh gS rks dHkh ifjokj esa ozr
vkSj Jk¼ gSa rks dHkh fdlh dk tUefnu euk;k tk jgk gSA ,sls ifjokj eas vfrfFk;ksa dk vkokxeu Hkh cuk jgrk
gSA dHkh cgw dks ysus mldk HkkbZ vk;k gqvk gS rks dHkh yM+dh dks eSosQ cqykus osQ fy, Hkh tkuk iM+rk gSA
nsoj&HkkHkh dh galh&etkd] uun&HkkStkbZ dh uksad&>ksad] cPpksa dh fdydkfj;ka] nsojkuh&ftBkuh osQ izfrLi¼kZRed
>xM+s vkfn euksjatu dk okrkoj.k izLrqr djrs gSaA
5- cPpksa osQ ykyu&ikyu esa ;ksxnku% la;qDr ifjokj cPpksa osQ ykyu&ikyu gsrq ,d mfpr LFkku gSA la;qDr
ifjokj esa o;kso`¼ L=kh&iq#"k cPpksa dh ns[k&js[k esa lg;ksx iznku djrs gSa rFkk muosQ lekthdj.k ,oa f'k{k.k
esa ;ksx nsrs gSaA ln~xq.k] lsok] R;kx] lgkuqHkwfr izse] lg;ksx vkSj ijksidkj vkfn Hkkoukvksa dks cPpk ifjokj esa
gh lh[krk gSA orZeku esa mu ifjokjksa dh tgka ifr&iRuh nksuksa gh ukSdjh djrs gSa vkSj cPps ukSdjksa dh ns[k&js[k
esa jgrs gSa dh fLFkfr vf/d Hk;kud gS D;ksafd ogk dbZ ckj cPpksa esa ln~xq.kksa dk fodkl ugha gks ikrkA
6- /u dk mfpr mi;ksx% la;qDr ifjokj esa ,d lkekU; dks"k gksrk gSA lkekU; dks"k esa ls gh lnL;ksa dh
vko';drk osQ vuqlkj pkgs og dekrk gks vFkok ugha] /u [kpZ fd;k tkrk gSA drkZ osQ fu;a=k.k osQ }kjk
vuko';d [kpks± ls cpk tkrk gSA ifjokj esa vk; vkSj lEifÙk ij fdlh lnL; dk fo'ks"kkf/dkj ugha gksrk gSA
blhfy, lHkh lnL; leku :i ls ykHk osQ Hkkxhnkj gksrs gSaA os viuh {kerkuqlkj vk; iznku djrs gSaA

7- lEifÙk dk foHkktu ls cpko% la;qDr ifjokj esa pwafd lHkh lnL; lfEefyr jgrs gSa] blfy, ogk¡ lEifÙk
osQ foHkktu dk iz'u gh ugha mBrk gSA bl izdkj la;qDr lEifÙk dk mi;ksx O;kikj vFkok fdlh /U/s esa djosQ
lEifÙk esa vkSj vf/d c<+ksÙkjh dh tk ldrh gSA la;qDr ifjokj Ñf"k osQ fy, vkSj Hkh vf/d mi;ksxh izekf.kr
gq, gSa] D;ksafd bUgksaus Hkwfe osQ foHkktu ij jksd yxkdj mRikndrk dks c<+kus esa lg;ksx fn;k gSA la;qDr lEifÙk
gksus osQ dkj.k vuko';d [kpks± ij Hkh jksd yxh gSA bl izdkj ge ns[krs gSa fd la;qDr ifjokj esa lEifÙk dh
lqj{kk gh gksrh gSA

8- Je&foHkktu% bjkorh dosZ osQ vuqlkj fo'kky la;qDr ifjokj ,d O;fDr osQ in vkSj mlosQ vkfFkZd
fØ;k&dyki dks fuf'pr dj nsrk gS vkSj mls lqj{kk iznku djrk gSA la;qDr ifjokj esa Je&foHkktu nks vk/kjksa
ij fd;k tkrk gSµizFke] ;kSu osQ vk/kj ij ,oa f}rh;] vk;q osQ vk/kj ijA ifjokj osQ iq#"kksa ij cká dk;Z
,oa ifjokj dh fL=k;ksa ij vkUrfjd dk;ks± dh f”kEesnkjh gksrh gSA ifjokj osQ izR;sd lnL; viuh ;ksX;rk ,oa
{kerk osQ vuqlkj dksbZ&u&dksbZ dk;Z vo'; gh djrs gSaA

9- ladV dk chek% lq[k vkSj nq%[k thou osQ nks igyw gSa ftuosQ fcuk ;g thou v/wjk&lk gSA izR;sd euq";
osQ thou esa lq[k osQ lkFk&lkFk nq%[k Hkh ik;s tkrs gSaA ;s nq%[k fdlh Hkh izdkj osQ gks ldrs gSa] tSls] dksbZ nq?kZVuk]
chekjh] 'kkjhfjd vFkok ekufld vLoLFkrk] ukSdjh NwV tkuk] oS/O; vkfnA bu lHkh voLFkkvksa esa la;qDr
ifjokj ,d lgkjs osQ :i esa gekjs le{k izLrqr gksrk gSA la;qDr ifjokj vukFk cPpksa] fo/okvksa rFkk o`¼ O;fDr;ksa
dh 'kj.k LFkyh gS tks vius lnL;ksa dks ;FkklaHko vkfFkZd lqj{kk iznku dj fpUrk ls eqfDr fnykrk gSA bl izdkj
la;qDr ifjokj vius lnL;ksa osQ fy, ,d ladVdkyhu chek gSA blhfy, vuUr 'k;u vk;axj dk dguk gS fd

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