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funsZ'ku rFkk ijke'kZ
uksV "To help the counsellee 'feel better' i.e., to help the counsellee accept himself to diminish the
disparity between real self and ideal self and to help person think more clearly in solving their
wowen personal problems".
la{ksi esa] Cok; ,oa ikbu osQ vuqlkj micksèku dk mís'; gS& fo|kFkhZ dks vkSj vfèkd ifjiDo cukus esa lgk;rk
iznku djuk] Lo;a lfØ;k cuus vkSj Lo;a osQ ;Fkksfpr ewY;kadu esa l{ke gks ldus esa lgk;rk nsuk gSA
vesfjdu euksoSKkfud la?k (American Psychological Association) osQ vuqlkj micksèk osQ rhu y{; gSa&
1- ijke'kZizkFkhZ }kjk Lo;a osQ vfHkizsjdksa] vkRe&n`f"Vdks.kksa ,oa {kerkvksa dks ;FkkFkZ :i ls Lohdkj
djuk]
2- lsokFkhZ osQ }kjk lkekftd] vkfFkZd ,oa O;kolkf;d okrkoj.k osQ lkFk rdZ;qDr lkeatL; dh izkfIr
djuk rFkk
3- O;fDrxr fofHkUurkvksa dh lekt }kjk LohÑfr ,oa leqnk;] jkstxkj o oSokfgd lEcUèkksa osQ {ks=k
esa mudk fufgrkFkZ djukA
bl o.kZu osQ vkèkkj ij ijke'kZ osQ rhu eq[; mís'; ekus tk ldrs gSa&
1- vkRe&Kku iznku djuk (Self-Knowledge),
2- vkRe&LohÑfr dk fodkl djuk (Self-Acceptance) rFkk
3- lkekftd lkeatL; dk fodkl djuk (Social-Harmony)A
1- vkRe&Kku (Self-knowledge): ijke'kZ dk izFke egRoiw.kZ mís'; gS& O;fDr dks] Lo;a osQ ewY;kadu esa
lgk;rk iznku djukA O;fDr dks micksèku dh vko';drk] Lo;a osQ ckjs esa tkuus] Lo;a dh 'kfDr] ;ksX;rk ,oa
lEHkkoukvksa dks igpkuus osQ fy, gksrh gSA lhrkjke tk;loky osQ vuqlkj&^^micksèku ,d izdkj ls ml T;ksfr osQ
leku gS] ftlosQ mi;ksx ls O;fDr dks Lo;a osQ vUnj o cká Lo:i dks igpkuus esa lgk;rk izkIr gksrh gSA**
O;fDr osQ vkRe&Kku gsrq vkSj mlosQ ewY;kadu gsrq micksèku dh fofHkUu fofèk;ksa dk iz;ksx fd;k tkrk gSA ;Fkk
vfuns'kkRed ijke'kZ (Non-directive Counseling) ijke'kZ lk{kkRdkj (Counseling Interview) bR;kfnA bu
fofHkUu izdkj dh fofèk;ksa ls O;fDr dks Lo;a osQ okLrfod Lo:i esa voxr gksus ls lgk;rk izkIr gksrh gSA micksèku]
lsokFkhZ dks mlosQ ;FkkFkZ vkRe Kku ls ifjfpr djkus esa dgk¡ rd lgk;d gqvk gS] blosQ }kjk micksèk dh izfØ;k
dh liQyrk dk ewY;kadu fd;k tkrk gSA fy;ksuk Vk;yj osQ 'kCnksa esa& ^^gesa micksèku dks ,d lgk;d izfØ;k
osQ :i esa iz;ksx djuk gS] ftldk mís'; O;fDr dks ifjofrZr djuk ugha gS oju~ mlosQ mu Jksrksa osQ mi;ksx esa
l{ke cukuk gS tks mlosQ ikl bl le; thou dk lkeuk djus gsrq ;ksX;rk miyCèk gSA rc micksèku esa bl miyfCèk
dh vis{kk djsaxs fd lsokFkhZ Lo;a dh vksj ls dfri; jpukRed fØ;k djsA**
"Let us use counseling to refer to a helping process of which is not change the person but to enable
him to utilise the resources now he has for copying with life the outcome we would then expect for
counseling is that the client do something, take some constructive action on his own behalf".
- Lyon Tylor
la{ksi esa ;g dgk tk ldrk gS fd micksèku dh izfØ;k }kjk O;fDr Lo;a esa vusd izdkj dh leL;kvksa osQ
izfr vUrn`Zf"V dk fodkl djrk gS rFkk viuh {kerk ,oa ;ksX;rkuq:i leL;kvksa dk fujkdj.k <wa<us esa l{ke
curk gSA
2- vkRe&LohÑfr (Self-Acceptance): vkRe&LohÑfr ls vk'k; O;fDr }kjk Lo;a osQ O;fDrRo ;k izfrfcEc
(Image) dks Lohdkj djuk gSA vusd O;fDr ,sls gksrs gSa] tks Lo;a osQ ckjs esa mfpr n`f"Vdks.k ugha cuk ikrs] dksbZ
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