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funsZ'ku rFkk ijke'kZ



                    uksV          gEÚh ,oa VªsDlyj&us ijke'kZ dks leL;k lekèkku esa lgk;d crk;k gSA ijUrq mUgksaus ;g Li"V ugha fd;k gS fd
                                  fdl izdkj dh leL;kvksa osQ lekèkku esa ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k lgk;d gSA muosQ 'kCnksa esa& ^^ijke'kZ O;fDr dh leL;k
                                  lekèkku gsrq fo|ky; ;k vU; laLFkkuksa osQ deZpkfj;ksa osQ mRloksa dk iz;ksx gSA** foyh rFkk ,.Mªw (Willy and
                                  Andrew) osQ vuqlkj&^^;s ikjLifjd :i ls lh[kus dh izfØ;k gS rFkk blosQ vUrxZr nks O;fDr lfEefyr gksrs
                                  gSa& ,d lgk;rk izkIrdÙkkZ vkSj nwljk og O;fDr tks bl izFke O;fDr dh lgk;rk bl izdkj djrk gS fd mldk
                                  vfèkdre fodkl gks losQA**
                                  tksUl (Jones)&us ijke'kZ dks ,d ,slh izfØ;k osQ :i esa Lohdkj fd;k gS ftlosQ vUrxZr ijke'kZizkFkhZ dks izR;{k
                                  ,oa O;fDrxr :i esa lgk;rk iznku dh tkrh gSA mlosQ vuqlkj ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k funsZ'kh; vfèkd gSA bl izfØ;k
                                  esa fo|kFkhZ ls lEcfUèkr leLr rF;ksa osQ ladyu ,oa fo|kFkhZ ls lEcfUèkr vuqHkoksa osQ vè;;u ij cy fn;k tkrk
                                  gSA fo|kFkhZ ls lEcfUèkr vuqHkoksa osQ vè;;u ij cy fn;k tkrk gSA fo|kfFkZ;ksa dh ;ksX;rkvksa dk vè;;u fdlh
                                  fof'k"V ifjfLFkfr osQ lUnHkZ esa fd;k tkrk gS blosQ vfrfjDr mUgksaus ;g Hkh Li"V dj fn;k gS fd ijke'kZ osQ
                                  vkèkkj ij ijke'kZizkFkhZ dh leL;kvksa dk lekèkku ugha fd;k tkrk gS oju~ mls Lo;a gh bl ;ksX; cuk fn;k tkrk
                                  gS fd og viuh leL;kvksa dk lekèkku Lo;a dj losQA
                                  dkWEcl us ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k esa] ijke'kZnkrk osQ LFkku ij ijke'kZizkFkhZ dks vfèkd egRo iznku fd;k gSA bl izdkj
                                  muosQ vuqlkj ;g ,d ijke'kZizkFkhZ osQfUnzr izfØ;k gSA
                                  dkWEcl  (Combas)&osQ vuqlkj czksoj (Brewer) us Hkh bl izfØ;k dks ijke'kZizkFkhZ&osQfUnzr gh Lohdkj fd;k gSA muosQ
                                  vuqlkj bl izfØ;k osQ vUrxZr ikjLifjd fopkj&foe'kZ] ckrphr ,oa lkSgknZiw.kZ] rdZ&fordZ osQ vkèkkj ij O;fDr dks
                                  bl izdkj lgk;rk iznku dh tkrh gS fd og viuh leL;kvksa ls lEcfUèkr fu.kZ; Lo;a ys losQA ikjLifjd fopkj
                                  fofue; osQ fy, lkSgknZziw.kZ okrkoj.k dk ltZu ,oa lekurk osQ èkjkry ij ckrphr djuk vko';d gksrk gSA bl fopkj
                                  fofue; dk izeq[k mís'; O;fDr esa fufgr ;ksX;rkvksa dh tkudkjh ,oa mudk vfèkdre fodkl gksrk gSA bl izdkj
                                  fopkj&fofue; osQ fujUrj nksuksa gh ,d nwljs ij vius fopkj vkjksfir djus dk iz;kl ugha djrs gSaA
                                  :Fk LVªSx osQ 'kCnksa esa ijke'kZizkFkhZ esa vkRe cksèk dh ;ksX;rk dk fodkl fd;k tkrk gSA blosQ vkèkkj ij gh O;fDr
                                  dks ;g Kkr gks ikrk gS fd og viuh leL;k dk lekèkku fdl izdkj dj ldrk gS\ mldh leL;k dk Lo:i
                                  D;k gS\ rFkk leL;k osQ lekèkku gsrq dkSu lh ;ksX;rk,¡ mlesa fo|eku gSaA

                                  LVªSax osQ vuqlkj&ijke'kZ izfØ;k ,d la;qDr iz;kl gSA fo|kFkhZ dk mÙkjnkf;Ro Lo;a dks le>kus dh ps"Vk djuk
                                  rFkk ml ekxZ dk irk yxkuk gS ftl ij mls tkuk gS rFkk tSls gh leL;k mRiUu gks] mlosQ lekèkku osQ fy,
                                  vkRe fo'okl dk fodkl gksuk gSA ijke'kZnkrk dk mÙkjnkf;Ro bl izfØ;k esa tc dHkh Nk=k dks vko';drk gks]
                                  lgk;rk iznku djuk gSA**
                                  "Counseling process is a joint quest. The students responsibility is to try to understand himself and
                                  the direction in which he should go an to gain self-confidence in handling problems as the arise. The
                                  counsellor's responsibility is to assist in this process whenever the student needs and is ready for
                                  help."

                                                                                                       - Ruth Strong
                                  jksyks es (Rollo May) osQ vuqlkj] ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k esa ijke'kZizkFkhZ osQ LFkku ij ijke'kZnkrk dks Hkwfedk osQ osQUnz
                                  ekurs gSaA muosQ 'kCnksa esa&^^ijke'kZ izkFkhZ dks lekftd nkf;Roksa dks lg"kZ Lohdkj djkus esa lgk;rk djuk] mls lkgl
                                  nsuk] ftlls mlesa ghu Hkkouk mRiUu u gks rFkk lkekftd ,oa O;ogkfjd mís';ksa dh izkfIr esa mldh lgk;rk djuk
                                  gSA**
                                  "His function is to assist the counsellee to a cheerful acceptances of his social responsibility to give
                                  him courage which will release him from the compulsion of his inferiority feelings and to help him
                                  to direct his striving towards socially constructive ends".                                            - Rollo May




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