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11-1 ijke'kZ dh voèkkj.kk (Concept of Counseling) uksV

ijke'kZ ,d izkphu 'kCn gS vkSj 'kCn dks ifjHkkf"kr djus osQ iz;kl izkjEHk ls gh fd, x, gSaA oScLVj 'kCndks"k
osQ vuqlkj&^^ijke'kZ dk vk'k; iwNrkN] ikjLifjd rdZ fordZ vFkok fopkjksa dk ikjLifjd fofue; gSA** bl
'kkfCnd vk'k; osQ vfrfjDr ijke'kZ osQ vU; i{k Hkh gSa ftuosQ vkèkkj ij ijke'kZ dk vFkZ Li"V gks ldrk gSA
muosQ fo}kuksa us bu i{kksa ij izdk'k Mkydj ijke'kZ dk vFkZ Li"V djus dk iz;kl fd;k gSA
ijke'kZ osQ lEcUèk esa lokZfèkd egRoiw.kZ rF; ;g gS fd ;g ,d ,slh izfØ;k gS ftlosQ vkèkkj ij lsokFkhZ dks
oS;fDrd n`f"V ls gh lgk;rk iznku dh tkrh gSA fxycVZ jsu osQ vuqlkj Hkh & ^^ijke'kZ loZizFke ,d O;fDrxr
lUnHkZ] dk ifjlwpd gSA bls lkewfgd :i esa iz;qDr ugha fd;k tk ldrk gSA lkewfgd ijke'kZ tSlk 'kCn vlaxr
gS rFkk O;fDrxr ijke'kZ tSlk 'kCn Hkh laxr ugha gS D;ksafd ijke'kZ lnSo O;fDrxr :i esa gh lEiUu gks
ldrk gSA**
"First of all counseling is personal. It can be performed with a group. Group conseling is an anomally
: the terms are not in harmony. 'Personal counseling' is a tautology, counseling is always personal."
- C. Gilbert Wrenn

ijke'kZ osQ vk'k; osQ lUnHkZ esa ,d fof'k"V i{k ;g Hkh gS fd ijke'kZ dh izfØ;k osQ }kjk ijke'kZ izkIrdÙkkZ vFkok
lsokFkhZ ij fdlh fu.kZ; dks Fkksik ugha tkrk gS] oju~ mldh lgk;rk bl izdkj dh tkrh gS fd og Lo;a fu.kZ;
ysus esa l{ke gks losQA tkWtZ bZñ ek;lZ osQ vuqlkj& ^^ijke'kZ dk dk;Z tc lEiUu gksrk gS] tc ;g lsokFkhZ dks
vius fu.kZ; Lo;a ysus osQ fy;s cqf¼eÙkkiw.kZ fofèk;ksa dk mi;ksx djosQ lgk;rk iznku djrk gSA ijke'kZ Lo;a mlosQ
fy;s fu.kZ; ugha ysrk gSA oLrqr% bl izfØ;k esa lsokFkhZ gsrq Lo;a fu.kZ; ysuk mruk gh vlaxr gS ftruk fd chtxf.kr
osQ f'k{k.k esa f'k{kkFkhZ osQ fy, iznÙk leL;k dk lekèkku f'k{kd osQ }kjk Lo;a djuk gSA**
"Its duty is performed when it helps the individual to follow a wire procedure in arriving at his own
decisions, not when it tries to make decisions for him. Counseling is no more making decisions for
the counselor than is the teaching of algebra solving problems for the one taught."
- G.E. Myers

jkfcUl osQ vuqlkj ijke'kZ osQ vUrxZr mu leLr ifjfLFkfr;ksa dks lfEefyr fd;k tkrk gS tks okrkoj.k ls lek;kstu
gsrq visf{kr gksrh gSA muosQ gh 'kCnksa esa & ijke'kZ osQ vUrxZr os leLr ifjfLFkfr;k¡ lfEefyr dj yh tkrh gSa
ftuosQ vkèkkj ij ijke'kZ izkIrdÙkkZ dks vius okrkoj.k esa lek;kstu gsrq lgk;rk izkIr gksrh gSA ijke'kZ dk lEcUèk
nks O;fDr;ksa ls gksrk gS& ijke'kZnkrk ,oa ijke'kZ izkFkhZ dk lEcUèk nks O;fDr;ksa ls gksrk gS& ijke'kZnkrk ,oa
ijke'kZizkFkhZ viuh leL;kvksa dk lekèkku] fcuk fdlh lq>ko osQ Lo;a gh djus esa l{ke ugha gks ldrk gSA mldh
leL;kvksa dk lekèkku] fcuk fdl lq>ko dh vko';drk gksrh gS vkSj ;s oSKkfud lq>ko gh ijke'kZ dgykrs gSA**
blh izdkj dkyZ jkstlZ us ijke'kZ dh vkRe cksèk dh izfØ;k esa lgk;d crk;s gq;s fy[kk gS fd& ^^ijke'kZ ,d
fuèkkZfjr :i ls LohÑr ,slk lEcUèk gS tks ijke'kZizkFkhZ dks] Lo;a dks le>us es i;kZIr lgk;rk nsrk gS] ftls og
vius uohu Kku osQ mi;ksx ls u;s fu.kZ; ys losQaA**
... a definitely structured permissive relationship which allows the client to gain and understanding
to himself to a degree which enables him to take positive steps in the light of his new orientation.
-Carl Rogers

,Me.M fofy;elu&us ijke'kZ osQ fofHkUu i{kksa dk O;kid Lrj ij vè;;u fd;k rFkk dgk fd& ^^,d izHkkoh
ijke'kZnkrk mlh dks dgk tkrk gS tks vius fo|kfFkZ;ksa dks viuh lsokvksa dks izkIr djus dh fn'kk esa izksRlkfgr
dj losQ rFkk ftlosQ iQyLo:i mUgsa lUrks"k ,oa liQyrk izkIr gks losQA oLrqr% ijke'kZ rks ,d izdkj dk ,slk
lekèkku gS ftlosQ vkèkkj ij lsokFkhZ dks viuh leL;kvksa dk lekèkku djus ls lEcfUèkr vfèkxe gksrk gSA**

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