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ukrsnkjh dk lekt'kkL=k
uksV (ii) dkuwu ;k iw.kZr% LFkkfir izFkk vFkok fjokt osQ vuqlkj vUo; osQ fu;e mÙkjkf/dkj osQ oqQN izdkjksa dks
ifjHkkf"kr djrs gSaA elyu vf/dkj tks tUe ls LFkkfir gksrk gS] blosQ vuqlkj lcls cM+k csVk ;k lcls NksVk
csVk ;k lHkh csVs vkSj csfV;k¡ e`rd dh lEifÙk osQ mÙkjkf/dkjh gksrs gSaA mlh izdkj 'kknh osQ vk/kj ij
mÙkjkf/dkj gksrk gS ftlosQ vuqlkj ifr osQ ejus ij lEifÙk dh mÙkjkf/dkfj.kh iRuh gksrh gSA
f}i{kh; lewg vkSj ,d i{kh; lewg
ifjokj ukrsnkjh osQ ca/u ls vVwV :i ls ca/k gksrk gSA ;g ,drk nks rjiQ tkrh gSµfirk osQ ifjokj osQ ewy
dh rjiQ vkSj ekrk osQ ifjokj osQ ewy dh rjiQA fdlh u fdlh dkj.k ls fdlh ,d i{k ij gh ”kksj fn;k tk
ldrk gSA mnkgj.k osQ fy, vk/qfud O;ogkj esa ge ekrk osQ ifjokj osQ oqQyuke dks udkj nsrs gSaA bruk gh
ugha] 'kknh gks tkus osQ ckn yM+fd;k¡ vius ifr osQ uke osQ vkxs tqM+us okys oqQyuke dks xzg.k dj ysrh gSaA ij
ifjokj nksuksa esa ls fdlh Hkh lg;ksxh i{k dks ugha udkjrkA blhfy, bls f}i{kh; lewg ekuk tkrk gSA
ukrsnkjh dks ,drk dk vk/kj ekuus okys nwljs izdkj osQ lewg gSa tks f}i{kh; lewgkssa ls fHkUu gSa D;ksafd os ,d
lg;ksxh i{k dks iwjs rkSj ij udkj nsrs gSaA ;s lc ,d i{kh; lewg dgs tkrs gSaA
oa'k
,d i{kh; lewg dk lcls ljy mnkgj.k oa'k gS ftlesa ,d gh oa'k osQ lHkh lEHkkfor lEcf/;ksa dks 'kkfey
fd;k tkrk gSA oa'k esa ,d gh [kkunku osQ mÙkjkf/dkjh gksrs gSa pkgs os fir`i{kh; gksa ;k ekr`i{kh;A os vius
tUetkr fj'rsnkjksa dks tkurs gSa vkSj ,d nwljs osQ izfr nkf;Roksa dks le>rs gSaA oa'k bl izdkj NksVk] LFkkuhÑr
vkSj T;knk fØ;k'khy gksrk gSA
xks=k (Sib)
tc lk/kj.k ,d i{kh; lewg ftls oa'k dgrs gSa bruk foLr`r gks tkrk gS fd blosQ nk;js esa ,d lkekU;
mÙkjkf/dkj osQ vk/kj ij ijLij lac¼ lHkh lewg 'kkfey gks tkrs gSa rks mls ,d oqQy ;k xks=k dgrss gSaA bl
izdkj ,d oqQy ;k xks=k oqQN oa'kksa osQ feyus ls curk gSA buosQ iwoZtksa ossQ tUe dks dkYifud iwoZtksa osQ lkFk
[kkst dj tksM+k tk ldrk gS tks ;k rks euq"; tSls gksa] ;k i'kq] ikS/s ;k futhZo gksaA fgUnqvksa dk xks=k ^xkse* dk
mnkgj.k gSA Li"V :i ls dg ldrs gSa fd xks=k 'kCn T;knk O;kid] HkkSxksfyd :i ls fc[kjs gq, vkSj yxHkx
fuf"Ø; ,di{kh; lewg osQ fy, bLrseky gksrk gSA
xks=k vDlj ,d lkekU; VksVsfed uke osQ tfj, ,d&nwljs ls ca/s gksrs gSaA ,d xks=k osQ yksxksa esa VksVe okys i'kq
osQ ekal dk Hk{k.k djus osQ fo#¼ fjokth rkSj ij ,d lkekU; fu"ks/ dk izpyu gksrk gSA bl izdkj dh dgkfu;k¡
vDlj lqukbZ tkrh gSa fd xks=k&lnL; VksVsfed iztkfr;kssa osQ fdlh lkekU; iwoZt dh larkusa gSaA
Hkzkr`Hko (izSQVh)
tc xks=kksa dk dksbZ lewg ijLij ,d&nwljs osQ lkFk ?kqy fey tkrk gS rks bls Hkzkr`Hkko ls cuk xks=k (oqQy) dgrs
gSaA dHkh&dHkh dksbZ xks=k bruk fo'kky gks tkrk gS fd vius iwoZorhZ xks=k osQ fj'rksa dks NksM+s fcuk Hkh VwV dj
vyx gks tkrk gSA bl rjg osQ ,d nwljs esa feyus ;k VwVus osQ mnkgj.k] mjk¡o vkSj eaqMk tutkfr;ksa esa feyrs
gSaA
vxj fdlh xks=k osQ lkjs dchys nks fcjknfj;ksa esa c¡Vs gksrs gSa] rks bl izdkj osQ lkekftd <kaps dk ge }S/ laxBu
dgrs gSa] tks izR;sd fcjknjh xks=k dh vk/h gksrh gSA
ukrsnkjh dk izlkj&{ks=k
ukrsnkjh lewg dks mlesa 'kkfey O;fDr;ksa dh la[;k osQ vk/kj ij foLr`r izlkjh ;k ladh.kZ izlkjh lewg dgk
tkrk gSA vk/qfud ukrsnkjh O;oLFkk ladh.kZ izlkj {ks=k okyh O;oLFkk gS tcfd vkfn dkyhu dchyk ;k flc
O;kid {ks=k okyh O;oLFkk gSA blesa 'kkfey yksx osQ vkisf{kd :i ls brus cM+s {ks=k esa fc[kjs iM+s gSa fd
fdlh&u&fdlh feFkdh; iwoZt dks chp esa yk, cxSj muosQ vkilh lEcU/ksa dh igpku eqf'dy gSA
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