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ukrsnkjh O;ogkj uksV
ukrsnkjh O;ogkj nks izeq[k dk;Z lEikfnr djrs gSaA izFke rks ;s ukrsnkjksa osQ fof'k"V lewg fufeZr djrs gSaA bl izdkj
fookg osQ lkekftd vUos"k.k ls izR;sd ek¡ dks ,d ifr fuf'pr gksrk gS ftlls firk osQ cPps ek¡ osQ gks tkrs
gSaA blls ekrk] firk vkSj cPpksa osQ fof'k"V lewg curs gSa ftls ge ifjokj dgrs gSaA vfrfjDr fu;eksa vkSj
lkekftd ifjikfV;ksa }kjk foLr`r ukrsnkjh lewgksa dk xBu gksrk gS] tSls foLr`r ifjokj ;k oa'k ;k xks=k ;k dchykA
ukrsnkjh lEcU/h fu;eksa dk nwljk egÙoiw.kZ dk;Z ukrsnkjksa osQ chp Hkwfedk lEcU/ksa dks vuq'kkflr djuk gSA
ukrsnkjh ,d izdkj osQ lkekftd ^fxzM* dk xBu djrk gSA fdlh Hkh lekt esa yksx tUexr laca/ksa ;k leku
ukrsnkjh lewg dh lnL;rk osQ dkj.k ijLij lai`Dr gksrs gSaA ukrsnkjh osQ mi;ksx ls bu lkekftd lewgksa ossQ yksx
vkil esa ,d nwljs osQ lkFk esy&tksy djrs gSaA ;g lEcU/ksa dh mfpr Hkwfedkvksa ,oa fj'rksa dks ifjHkkf"kr djrk
gSa] tSls firk vkSj iq=kh osQ chp lEcU/] HkkbZ&cgu osQ chp lEcU/] ;qok nkekn rFkk lkl ossQ chp osQ lEcU/
vkfnA vr% ukrsnkjh O;ogkj }kjk lkekftd thou fu;fer gksrk gSA
lkekftd thou osQ fu;ked osQ :i esa ukrsnkjh dk egÙo rhu ckrksa ij vk/kfjr gSµ
(i) ml gn rd tgk¡ rd O;fDr vius jDr&lEcaf/;ksa ls f?kjk gksrk gSA ;fn ,d gh oa'k osQ yksx foLr`r bykdksa
esa fc[kjs gksa rks ukrsnkjh O;ogkj dh Hkwfedk lhfer gksxhA (ii) izfrekfur ukrsnkjh O;ogkj osQ fodkl dk LrjA
oqQN lkekftd yksxkssa esa lEcU/ brus izfrekfur gksrs gSa fd vkdfLedrk osQ fy, txg cgqr de gksrh gSA oqQN
lektksa esa ukrsnkjh dk fuf'pr ^iSVuZ* ugha gksrk ftlls O;fDroknh O;ogkj cgqr T;knk gksus dh laHkkouk gksrh
gSA (iii) yksxksa dh Hkwfedk,¡ fuf'pr djus osQ fy, oSdfYid fodkl dk LrjA 'kgjh {ks=kksa esa gekjk viuk
O;ogkj ukrsnkjh osQ fu;eksa ls izHkkfor ugha gksrk D;ksafd ge ukrsnkjksa osQ lkFk vkerkSj ij var% fØ;k ugha djrsA
;g fLFkfr ,d lkekU; fdlku osQ xk¡o osQ fcYoqQy foijhr gS] D;ksafd ogk¡ izR;sd O;fDr ,d leqnk; osQ izR;sd
O;fDr ls lEc¼ gksrk gSA ifj.kker% dksbZ Hkh O;fDr vius oa'k osQ yksxksa dh mifLFkfr esa gh dksbZ dke djrk
gSA fcYoqQy NksVs lekt esa] tgk¡ HkkSxksfyd xfr'khyrk dh FkksM+h ;k fcYoqQy NksVs lekt esa] tgk¡ HkkSxksfyd
xfr'khyrk dh FkksM+h ;k fcYoqQy Hkh laHkkouk ugha gksrh ukrsnkjh O;ogkj gh lkekftd O;ogkj dks fu;fer
djrs gSaA
izfrekfur ukrsnkjh O;ogkj nks Hkkxksa esa ck¡Vs tk ldrs gSa%µ(i) vf/dkjksa vkSj drZO;ksa dks fu/kZfjr djus okys fu;e
(ii) vkpkj&fopkj ;k rkSj&rjhdksa ls lacaf/r fu;eA
vf/dkj vkSj drZO; dks fu/kZfjr djus okys fu;e

;s fu;e ogk¡ ykxw gksrs gSa tgk¡ ukrsnkj nwljs izdkj dh lsokvksa ;k dÙkZO;ksa ;k fo'ks"kkf/dkjksa ls tqM+s gksrs gSaA
mnkgj.k osQ fy, ukrsnkjksa osQ chp ,d lkekU; vkfrF; dh Hkkouk gksrh gSaA vxj dksbZ lEcU/h fdlh nwljs osQ
?kj tkus dh bPNk djrk gS rks og lkf/dkj eqÝr Hkkstu] lksus dk LFkku] vkSj nwljs izdkj osQ vkfrF;&izrhdksa
dh vk'kk djrk gSA mldh vk'kk;sa ;k nkos blfy, oS/ yxrs gSa fd og ,d Lotu gSA mÙkjkf/dkj osQ fu;e
nwljs mnkgj.k iznku djrs gSaA ;s fu;e ;g fu/kZfjr dj ldrs gSa fd e`rd dh lEifÙk ;k rks mldh iRuh ;k
lcls cM+s csVs ;k lcls NksVs csVs ;k mlosQ cPpksa osQ chp ck¡V nh tk,xhA oa'kxr mi;ksx osQ vkSj mnkgj.k
ekrk&firk }kjk vius cPpksa dk ykyu&ikyu] Hkj.k&iks"k.k] mUgsa thou osQ fo"k; esa izf'kf{kr djus vkSj Hkkjr
tSls lekt esa blls c<+dj csfV;ksa osQ fy, ngst tqVkus ls lacaf/r gSaA izpfyr ukrsnkjh O;ogkj osQ vk/kj ij
gh lekt fo'ks"k esa L=kh&iq#"k osQ chp ftEesnkfj;ksa dk c¡Vokjk gksrk gSA oqQN lektksa esa ;s vf/dkj vkSj
ftEesnkfj;k¡ cjkcj c¡Vh gksrh gSa vkSj buesa rkjrE; gksrk gSA oqQN esa ;s fcYoqQy vlaxr gksrh gSaA ,d i{k nsrk
gS rks nwljk ikrk gS] ,d osQ ikl vf/dkj gSa rks nwljs osQ ikl drZO;A bl izdkj dh ckrsa vius ns'k esa L=kh&iq#"k
;k ekrk&firk rFkk cPpksa osQ fj'rksa dks fu/kZfjr djrs gSaA cgqr yEcs le; ls Hkkjrh; lekt esa O;kIr ijEijkvksa

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