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bdkbZ—11: ukrsnkjh O;oLFkk esa {ks=kh; fofHkUurk vkSj mlosQ lkekftd&lkaLÑfrd lg&laca/




            :i ls ifjHkkf"kr oSokfgd lEcUèkksa osQ dkj.k curs gSa fookg lEcUèkh ukrsnkjh dgs tkrs gSaA oSokfgd :i ls lac¼  uksV
            fj'rsnkj ,d nwljs ls [kwu osQ vkèkkj ij ugha tqM+s gksrsA bl izdkj ukrsnkjh dks ge jDr lEcUèk ;k 'kknh osQ vkèkkj
            ij ful`r lkekftd lEcUèk osQ :i esa ifjHkkf"kr dj ldrs gSaA ukrsnkjh lewg (fdu xzqi) ,d ,slk lewg gS
            ftlosQ lnL; jDr vFkok fookg osQ caèku osQ vkèkkj ij ijLij tqM+s gksrs gSaA
            fo"k;&oLrqµizR;sd lekt esa vUo; osQ fu;e nks dkj.kksa ls egÙoiw.kZ gksrs gSaµ

                (i) ;g izR;sd O;fDr dks Lor% ,d lkekftd izfr"Bk vkSj lEeku osQ Lrj ij izfrf"Br djrk gSA blosQ
                   vuqlkj O;fDr lkfèkdkj] lkekftd izfr"Bk dh Hkwfedkvksa o ftEesnkfj;ksa esas lgHkkxh curk gSA ukrsnkjh
                   lewg osQ lnL;ksa osQ chp ikjLifjd vknku&iznku rFkk lg;ksx osQ vykok vfèkdkj vkSj ftEesnkfj;ksa
                   ls tqM+s ;s yksx 'kknh&fookg osQ fu;eksa dk ikyu djrs gSaA
                (ii) dkuwu ;k iw.kZr% LFkkfir izFkk vFkok fjokt osQ vuqlkj vUo; osQ fu;e mÙkjkfèkdkj osQ oqQN izdkjksa
                   dks ifjHkkf"kr djrs gSaA elyu vfèkdkj tks tUe ls LFkkfir gksrk gS] blosQ vuqlkj lcls cM+k csVk
                   ;k lcls NksVk csVk ;k lHkh csVs vkSj csfV;k¡ e`rd dh lEifÙk osQ mÙkjkfèkdkjh gksrs gSaA mlh izdkj 'kknh
                   osQ vkèkkj ij mÙkjkfèkdkj gksrk gS ftlosQ vuqlkj ifr osQ ejus ij lEifÙk dh mÙkjkfèkdkjh iRuh gksrh
                   gSA
            f}i{kh; lewg vkSj ,d i{kh; lewg

            ifjokj ukrsnkjh osQ caèku ls vVwV :i ls ck¡èkk gksrk gSA ;g ,drk nks rjiQ tkrh gSµfirk osQ ifjokj osQ ewy
            dh rjiQ vkSj ekrk osQ ifjokj osQ ewy dh rjiQA fdlh u fdlh dkj.k ls fdlh ,d i{k ij gh tksj fn;k tk
            ldrk gSA mnkgj.k osQ fy, vkèkqfud O;ogkj esa ge ekrk osQ ifjokj osQ oqQyuke dks udkj nsrs gSaA bruk gh
            ugha] 'kknh gks tkus osQ ckn yM+fd;k¡ vius ifr osQ uke osQ vkxs tqM+us okys oqQyuke dks xzg.k dj ysrh gSaA ij
            ifjokj nksuksa esa ls fdlh Hkh lg;ksxh i{k dks ugha udkjrkA blhfy, bls f}i{kh; lewg ekuk tkrk gSA
            ukrsnkjh dks ,drk dk vkèkkj ekuus okys nwljs izdkj osQ lewg gSa tks f}i{kh; lewgksa ls fHkUu gSa D;ksafd os ,d
            lg;ksxh i{k dks iwjs rkSj ij udkj nsrs gSaA ;s lc ,d i{kh; lewg dgs tkrs gSaA
            ukrsnkjh dk izlkj&{kss=k
            ukrsnkjh lewg dks mlesa 'kkfey O;fDr;ksa dh la[;k osQ vkèkkj ij foLr`r izlkjh ;k ladh.kZ izlkjh lewg dgk
            tkrk gSaA vkèkqfud ukrsnkjh O;oLFkk ladh.kZ izlkj {ks=k okyh O;oLFkk gS tcfd vkfn dkyhu dchyk ;k flc
            O;kid {ks=k okyh O;oLFkk gSA blesa 'kkfey yksx osQ vkisf{kd :i ls brus cM+s {ks=k esa fc[kjs iM+s gSa fd
            fdlh&u&fdlh feFkdh; iwoZt dks chp esa yk, cxSj muosQ vkilh lEcUèkksa dh igpku eqf'dy gSA
            ukrsnkjh O;ogkj
            ukrsnkjh O;ogkj nks izeq[k dk;Z lEikfnr djrs gSaµ
            izFke rks ;s ukrsnkjksa osQ fof'k"V lewg fufeZr djrs gSaA bl izdkj fookg osQ lkekftd vUos"k.k ls izR;sd ek¡ dks
            ,d ifr fuf'pr gksrk gS ftlls firk osQ cPps ek¡ osQ cPps gks tkrs gSaA blls ekrk] firk vkSj cPpksa osQ fof'k"V
            lewg curs gSa ftls ge ifjokj dgrs gSaA vfrfjDr fu;eksa vkSj lkekftd ifjikfV;ksa }kjk foLr`r ukrsnkjh lewgksa
            dk xBu gksrk gSa] tSls foLr`r ifjokj ;k oa'k ;k xks=k dk dchykA
            ukrsnkjh lEcUèkh fu;eksa dk nwljk egÙoiw.kZ dk;Z ukrsnkjksa osQ chp Hkwfedk lEcUèkksa dks vuq'kkflr djuk gSA
            ukrsnkjh ,d izdkj osQ lkekftd ^fxzM* dk xBu djrk gSA fdlh Hkh lekt esa yksx tUexr caèkuksa ;k leku
            ukrsnkjh lewg dh lnL;rk osQ dkj.k ijLij lai`Dr gksrs gSaA ukrsnkjh osQ mi;ksx ls bu lkekftd lewgksa osQ yksx
            vkil esa ,d nwljs osQ lkFk esy&tksy djrs gSaA ;g lEcUèkksa dh mfpr Hkwfedkvksa ,oa fj'rksa dks ifjHkkf"kr djrk
            gS] tSsls firk vkSj iq=kh osQ chp lEcUèk] HkkbZ&cgu osQ chp lEcUèk] ;qok nkekn rFkk lkl osQ chp osQ lEcUèk
            vkfnA vr% ukrsnkjh O;ogkj }kjk lkekftd thou fu;fer gksrk gSA




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