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Conflict Management and Negotiation Skills
Notes 13.11 Traps to Avoid
Alternatives to Lying:
Asked your bottom line, say you’re not ready to reveal it
If you claim you “lack authority” then don’t seek authority
Don’t want to volunteer alternatives, ask opponent for options
Only make promises you can keep
Don’t lie about facts, limit discussion to opinion of facts
Procedural Fairness
Seen in appropriateness of tactics used
Functionalist Model
Bargaining is voluntary process
Purpose is to reach valid agreement
Practices that threaten valid agreement violate purpose
Negotiation is also adversarial process in which parties use bargaining techniques to gain
information and advantages
Reciprocity standard—would you want to be treated in this way?
Universality standard—would you advise others to behave this way?
Publicity standard—would you like to see the actions in the press?
Trusted friend standard—would you tell your friend of your actions?
Legacy standard—do you want to be remembered for acting in this way?
Appropriate Tactics
Gain information about opponent by asking friends, associates, and contacts
Make an unrealistically high opening demand
Hide your real bottom line
Give false impression you aren’t in a hurry to pressure your opponent
Inappropriate Tactics
Misrepresent factual information or nature of negotiations to improve one’s position or
because your opponent did
Falsely threaten or promise things with no ability to deliver
Bypass your opponent’s negotiator to undermine opponent’s position
Gain confidential information by bribery
Unethical Negotiating Gambits
The Decoy
The Red Herring
The Deliberate Mistake
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